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Are Extracurricular Activities Necessary for Young Children?

September 8, 2015 By MelissaB 1 Comment

Little Amber is performing in her first dance recital.  She’s only three years old.  She feels pretty in her sparkly costume, and she likes the way her mom has done her hair.  But, she can’t remember many of the dance moves.  She and her classmates spend most of their time on the stage looking to the wings where their dance teacher hides from the audience behind the curtain and performs the moves with the girls.

Amber’s parents pay for dance recital pictures as well as a DVD to capture the memories.  In all, they spend about $200 on the recital, in addition to the regular lessons they pay for all year.

Plenty of parents have their young children in extracurricular activities and can relate to the experience and the price.  As parents we’re told again and again how vital extracurricular activities are for our children, but is this myth true?

Do we need to have our children in expensive extracurricular activities?

Falling for the Myth

Extracurricular ActivitiesWhen my oldest child was 4, we enrolled him in a few extracurricular activities.  This continued until he was 7 at which time we decided to get gazelle intense.  Our two youngest children had no opportunity to be involved in expensive extracurricular activities because of our tight budget.

What have I noticed?  While my oldest was a busy kid thanks to school, homework, and extracurriculars, my two youngest (now 5 and 6) have a lot more free time AND play time.  Sure, they fight (often), but I also see how creative they are.  Every day they’re coming up with new stories to act out and games to play.  Contrary to the myth that kids need to be involved in extracurricular activities, I find that my younger two seem to be better off without all of the extracurricular activities.

Are Extracurricular Activities in Preschool Necessary?

We’ve also bought into the myth that kids need to start a sport or activity early—the earlier the better.  If your daughter is going to have any chance of being successful in dance or gymnastics, she should start at 3 or 4.

But that’s not necessarily true.

“Misty Copeland, who has been promoted to top dancer at the prestigious American Ballet Theatre in New York. . .started ballet lessons at 13” (NPR).

Do You Have to Outsource?

You may think, rightly so, that some lessons like swim lessons shouldn’t wait until your children are older.  I would agree with that.  However, do you have to outsource the swim lessons?  Just this summer, I looked into swim lessons for my kids.  They were going to cost $200 for 5 days’ worth of lessons, 15 minutes per day per child.  Yikes!

Instead, my husband started taking the kids to the pool one by one and teaching them how to swim.  They love the one-on-one time with dad, and we love that we don’t have to pay $600 to teach three kids how to swim!

If you have your children in extracurricular activities, there’s nothing wrong with that.  However, if you choose not to, or you can’t because you can’t currently afford extracurricular activities, know that there are plenty of other ways to teach your children things like swimming.  Some of our best athletes, like Misty Copeland, don’t even begin their sport until their teens.  Your children will be fine.

How important do you think extracurricular activities are to young children?  Do you have your children enrolled in extracurricular activities, or do you choose not to?

MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: Children, Married Money, ShareMe Tagged With: children, expenses, extracurricular activities, school

5 Fun Ways to Educate Your Child about Money This Summer

May 12, 2015 By MelissaB 3 Comments

Ah, summer.  Your kids get to take a break from the school grind, and as a parent, you get to take a break from the homework grind.  While your child will likely have fun hanging out with friends, playing sports, going to the movies, and reading, now is the time for you to sneak in a little summer education.

Teaching our kids about money is one of the most important things we can do as parents.  What our children learn about money and see us do with money will likely affect them for years to come.  This summer, take the time to educate your children about money while making it fun.

TD Bank’s Summer Reading Program

Educate your child about moneyTD Bank has a summer reading program where your kids will earn $10 if they read 10 books.  TD Banks are mainly on the East coast, so not all kids can benefit from the reading program.  However, all kids can take advantage of TD Bank’s summer reading list for kids from Kindergarten to 7th grade.

The list is broken down by grade level, and each book suggested has a financial lesson.  For instance, one of the books for 7th grade is Money Hungry, a story about a young girl who is driven by greed.

TD Bank also has a section for parents that includes a story that you can read to children along with worksheets you can do with them.  In addition, there is a virtual stock game that your kids can play to practice investing in the stock market.

Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace, Jr.

Dave Ramsey takes his advice and rolls it into a package for children.  Financial Peace, Jr. includes audio CDs as well as a workbook.  There are also cash envelopes, stickers, and other fun activities for kids.  This kit is for kids ages 3 to 12.  When two of my kids were 4 and 8, they loved listening to the CDs and doing the activities.

Nick Jr. Money Games and Activities

If you have little ones who are just starting to learn about money, why not try Nick Jr.’s Money Games and Activities.  These activities primarily help young kids differentiate coins and learn the value of each one.

Star Banks Adventure

T. Rowe Price has created this game as part of their Money Confident Kids program. This game will likely be appealing to kids thanks to the video game-like presentation. Parents will love that the program teaches kids about inflation, saving, spending wisely, and asset allocation, among other topics.  This game is available as an app and as an online game.

Board Games

On a long, hot summer day, nothing beats staying inside playing a board game.  Many classic board games offer your children entertainment AND financial education.  Some of my favorite for this purpose are Monopoly, Life, and Payday.

Use these activities a few times a week, and your child will not only have a fun summer, but one that is filled with financial lessons.

What are your favorite activities and games to teach your kids about money?

MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: Children, Married Money, Personal Finance Education, ShareMe Tagged With: children, kids, money

New Addition to the Beating Broke Family

April 28, 2014 By Shane Ede 9 Comments

Things have been a bit hectic around here over the last week or two. We had a baby!  Surprise.  I seriously realized after she was born that I hadn’t even mentioned the fact that we were expecting on here.  I guess when it’s the third child, the excitement level and having to tell the whole world aren’t as high.  🙁  So, sorry about that.

We’re Pregnant!

Better late than never, right?  Never mind that it’s close to 11 months later.  Our little baby is now a little over a week old.  Insert cute picture of infant here:

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If there’s one thing that we’ve noticed with the third child is that it’s so much different than the first two.  With the first one, we did the typical new parent thing and bought every little gadget and gizmo that all the ads tell you that you need to have.  We had so many clothes, diapers, and formula that we could have opened up our own infant store.  With the second one, we already had a bunch of the gadgets and furniture, so it was cheaper.  Plus, we’d already done this once, and knew what we thought we needed.  We only bought the stuff that we thought we needed.

The third child is a totally different thing.  We’ve done this a couple times, but the last one was 5 years ago.  We’d thrown out most of the furniture, car seats, and most of the toys.  We’d also given away most of the other stuff we had.  But, instead of going out and immediately re-buying all that stuff again, we did it the cheap way.  Some friends of ours recently had a child, so we have borrowed a lot of the gadgets.  Car seats, swings, etc all are  from them.  Another friend of ours recently had a baby that had conveniently just grown out of her newborn clothes.  We had an instant closet full of clothes for our baby. There are some other things that we had to go out and buy, but our costs for new things has been pretty minimal.

Of course, there’s no level of borrowing or purchasing that will get us full nights sleep right now. 🙂

Thinking back, we were early to the baby-making game among our friends.  Borrowing stuff, and receiving hand-me-downs wasn’t really possible with the first two.  I’m glad it is possible here.  I highly encourage you to find as much stuff to borrow if you’ve got friends that have kids.  And it helps if you’ve got friends that have recently had babies too.  Especially when they’re ready to get rid of the boxes of clothes that they’ve gathered.

How do you help make baby cheaper?

 

 

Shane Ede

I started this blog to share what I know and what I was learning about personal finance. Along the way I’ve met and found many blogging friends. Please feel free to connect with me on the Beating Broke accounts: Twitter and Facebook.

You can also connect with me personally at Novelnaut, Thatedeguy, Shane Ede, and my personal Twitter.

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Filed Under: Children, The Beating Broke Story Tagged With: children

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