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Have a Holiday Spending Plan: Don’t Dread January

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Its beginning to feel a lot like christmasHoliday shopping is in full swing now, and you may be feeling the financial pressure.  Shane recently quit his job and is working on a tight holiday budget.  My husband and I are in the midst of being gazelle intense, so we don’t have much extra money for gifts.  Yet even though we don’t have much money to spend this holiday season, I feel great about what we are giving because we are not overspending.  We can truly afford what we are giving.  Instead of overspending, we are empowering ourselves by spending exactly what we are able to spend.  Follow these tips to rein in your holiday purchases this season:

-Freeze the credit cards.

Literally.  Put them in water and freeze them.  Better yet, put them in peanut butter as we did.  Vow not to use your credit cards this month.  There is nothing worse than opening your credit card statement and staring at the large number you now owe.  The presents have been opened, the holiday is over, but you still owe for the holidays.  If, instead, you put the credit cards away, you have nothing to dread come January.

 

 

-Set a budget and fund it with cash.

Determine exactly how much you have to spend and withdraw that money from your bank account.  Pay for every purchase with cash.  Feel the pain as you part from the cash.  Acknowledge what you are spending, and feel empowered that you are sticking to your budget.
If you want to shop online, get a debit card.  Just avoid using credit cards.

-Shop the bargains

There will be plenty of deals to come this holiday season.  Stay focused on the deals and only buy items you can get on sale.  Take advantage of buy one get one free sales such as buy one toy of a certain brand, get the second toy from the same brand free.

-Buy sets

For children, especially young children, buy toys that come in sets such as a baby doll with a stroller and a high chair.  Take those out of the package and break them into three different presents for the price you paid for the bundled gift.

-Look in unconventional locations

My children get presents from Santa and from me and my husband.  Since they were little, the toys that get from us are often gently used.  I shop garage sales throughout the summer and hide gifts away.  This year my three year old will get a new in the box baby doll that I picked up at a garage sale for $3.  My son will get a wooden box with five different games in it that I found at a garage sale for $5.

Obviously you may not have time to go to (or even find) garage sales now, but you can shop children’s resale stores for quality toys at a steep discount.

They say ‘tis better to give than to receive, and that is true more so when what you give is what you can afford.  Why not enjoy watching your family open their presents this Christmas without worrying where the money will come to pay for everything in January.  It is possible.  Beating Broke and I are both proof of that.

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Have a No Spend Month This Fall to Save for Holiday Gifts

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Have you ever watched your family open up Christmas gifts while mentally calculating how much each gift cost and comparing that against the amount you have in your checking?  Have you dreaded opening the bills in January because you know the credit card statement from holiday shopping will be coming soon and you do not have the money to pay the balance in full?
When my husband and I were newly married and dirt poor, we carefully planned our Christmas purchases to fit within our meager budget.  We didn’t buy many gifts, but the ones we bought were well thought out.  When we went to visit my mom over the holidays, she kept telling us about all of the presents she had bought for us.  There were so many under the tree!  Because we are the only people to buy gifts for my mom because my dad has passed, we started feeling guilty about the few presents we bought her.  Noticing that her bathroom towels were worn, we went out Christmas Eve night and bought her an entire set of 6 new bath towels including hand towels and washcloths with money we did not have.  Then we bought her some jewelry.  We charged everything knowing we didn’t have the money to pay.

50mm HBWOn Christmas morning, she delighted in her presents.  When we opened ours, we were in for a surprise.  She too had bought a few well thought out gifts for us.  But all those extra gifts we found under the tree?  They were leftover t-shirts from a conference some of the professors had hosted at the university where she works.  She bought them for a $1 each.  Each time I or my husband opened another one of those presents that contained a t-shirt, I felt sick.  We had put ourselves in debt to try to make sure our presents were equal to hers, but she had stuck to her financial budget by giving us “filler” presents.  There had been no need to buy those extra gifts on Christmas Eve. . .

We worked like crazy selling off things in our apartment such as textbooks we no longer used so that we could pay off those credit cards used to buy the extra gifts.  On our meager salary, it took us until March.  Thankfully, we have learned our lesson.

If you don’t want to spend the months after Christmas worrying how you will pay off the new debt you just acquired, consider having a no spend month now.  We still have nearly three months until Christmas.  Pick a month such as October or November to drastically reduce your spending.

If you normally spend $1000 a month on groceries, gas, entertainment, eating out, toiletries, etc., decide how much you want to cut that amount.  Maybe you will decide that in October you will only spend $500 a month.  To make up the difference, perhaps you won’t eat out or you will eat from the pantry to use up those groceries that have been on the shelf for awhile.  Maybe you will do something for free as a family rather than catching the latest movie.

By reducing your spending for just 4 weeks, you will be able to come up with a good amount for your holiday gift giving.  If you normally spend $1000, but only spend $500 of that in October, you now have $500 saved for holiday gift buying.  Yes, you sacrifice now, but it will be well worth it when you know that every present under the tree has been paid for.  Best of all, there is no reason to dread the bills in January.  Isn’t that a great way to start the new year?

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Financial Intentionality

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Financial bloggers, myself included, speak rather frequently about setting goals for your financial life.  Goals are super important.  If you don’t have a goal, you have no direction.  Further, if you don’t have a goal, you have not intention for your money.  You are intention-less.

What is your intention for your money?  What purpose should your money serve?
Pay-offA typical goal for money is to pay off this or that.  To save for this date, or this item.  But, deep down, there is an intention there.  If your goal is to pay off a debt, the intention is for your money to make you debt free.  If you’re saving up for something, the intention is to buy what you want without adding debt.  If you’re saving up for a date, the intention is to reach that date with some amount of money to pay for things without adding debt, or having to live in a trailer.

Financial Intentionality, in my mind, is more important than financial goals.  If the intention is all wrong, it just won’t help you out.  I don’t think that it’s black and white.  Call it karma, or morality, or whatever, but having a good intention will always get you farther than a bad one.  Not only that, but I think that intentionally guiding your money is a better way.

My intention with my money is to facilitate a debt free lifestyle where I can enjoy what I do, and not have to worry about where the next payment is going to come from.  There are sub-intentions.  Or, rather, intentions that lead towards that grander intention.  I intend to use my money to pay off my debt.  I intend to use my money to provide for my family in a way that allows us our necessities and a few luxuries without causing us to go further into debt or life extravagantly.

What are your intentions with your money?  Are the goals that you’ve set in line with those intentions?

Study what you do with your money.  Are your spending habits in line with your intentions?  How about your goals?  Perhaps your intention is to become debt free, but, one of your short-term goals is to save up for a new HDTV.  If you don’t really need that TV, your goal is way out of line with your intention.

Spend your money with intention.  Keep your intentions in mind as you set your goals and spend your money.

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