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How to Get More Financial Peace of Mind

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Financial Peace of Mind

Money troubles kill relationships. They also cause major stresses, catalyze health problems, ruin plans, mess up sleep schedules, and so much more. We hate to admit it, but money is easy to worry about, and many of us do it a lot. What’s more, there is good reason to worry about money. Without enough of it, we can’t live where we want, eat what we want, get educated, have a fun time out of the house. Like it or not, your sense of well-being has much to do with how much money you have and how you use it. So here are a few ways to get more financial peace of mind.

Life Insurance

Perhaps the best way to get peace of mind in your financial life is to buy life insurance. If you’ve never thought about buying life insurance before, you probably don’t realize how inexpensive it can be. Many people find that life insurance quotes are much lower than they anticipated, especially for people who are young and healthy. Life insurance creates peace of mind not just for you, but for the people who depend on your for income and security.

Know Where Your Money Goes

If you’ve ever made a budget after a long period of not paying attention to your money, you know how much it hurts. You  may feel like your spending record is judging you, so some people avoid budgeting at all costs. But the only way to spend money more wisely is to take a close look at how you need to spend, and how you actually spend in practice. Often there is too much difference between these two , and you should find a way to spend your money according to better measures and goals.

Get an Emergency Fund

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Building an emergency fund and contributing to it regularly is one of the most important financial habits you’ll ever create. An emergency fund will help protect you in the event of an accident, a breakdown, and any number of unexpected expenses. It takes awhile to build an emergency fund large enough to cover you and your family for six months (the oft-recommended amount).  However, once you’ve managed to build it, you’ll find it’s worth it. An emergency fund provides great peace of mind because you know you have a safety net.  Plus, to create one you have to be financially responsbile and disciplined.

Final Thoughts

There are many ways to live beneath your means and acquire better financial peace of mind. We lose our cool financially when our money is out of control. Learn the basic ropes of personal finance, spend time caring for your own financial garden, and you may be surprised at the extent to which it improves your life. People don’t feel secure when their means of sustenance and shelter are constantly in upheaval. When you have financial security, you are very likely to have physical security, which can only have a positive impact on your state of mind.

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What to Do When You Have More Bills Than Income

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It can happen to the best of us—we have more bills than income.  Every person’s situation is unique.  Maybe you lost your job, or you had a medical emergency, or you just went through a divorce.  The situation doesn’t matter.  What matters is that you find yourself in a desperate position.  Rather than panicking or ignoring the problem, know that there are strategies to implement to get yourself out of this position.

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Steps to Take When You Have More Bills Than Income

The process of getting out of this situation isn’t quick, but finding your financial footing again can be done.

Write Down Your Financials

The first step is to take an honest account of where you are.  How much money do you have coming in?  How much debt do you have?  What are your monthly payments and bills?

Cut Ruthlessly

Now that you have your financials on paper, you need to cut ruthlessly.  What do you pay for monthly that you can slash from your budget?  Start first with subscriptions like DisneyPlus, Netflix, Amazon, etc.  You can get those services back once you no longer have more bills than income.

Next, look at categories you can’t eliminate but can reduce.  We all have to eat, but we don’t have to go to a restaurant to do so.  If you’re not already cooking all of your meals at home, now is the time to start.  Also, make a plan to shift the type of food that you’re eating so you can lower your grocery bill.  Now might be the time to eat some beans and rice and vegetarian soups.

Learn how to lower your electric bill.  Turn off appliances and devices that you’re not using at night.

Consider switching cell phone providers so you don’t have a high monthly cell phone bill.  You might want to move to a lower cost provider like Ting or Tello Mobile.

In short, cut or reduce everything you can.  Then, you’re on to the next step.

Prioritize Payments

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If there’s not enough money even after slashing your expenses, there’s not enough.  Once you write down your financials, list your bills in order of importance.  Think survival here.

Survival Expenses Should Always Be Paid First

Bills and expenses that you likely want to be sure you pay every month can include:

Food,

Clothing,

Utilities,

Housing,

Transportation

The most important goals right now are to feed and clothe yourself as well as keep the lights on (along with the heat or air conditioning) and maintain your house and car.  Without the latter two, keeping and getting yourself to work is very difficult.

Keep in mind, you’ll still want to be conservative in these categories.  You won’t be eating fancy meals and you won’t be buying designer clothes.  You’ll spend the minimum you need to get yourself fed and clothed.

Expenses to Pay with the Remaining Money

After you’ve done looking at your spending priorities, look at how much money you have left.  You may find that you have many more bills to go and only a little money left.  That’s okay.  You knew you were in this position, and now you’re writing it all out and making a plan.  This is empowering even if it feels terrifying.

Let’s say you have four debts remaining and you only have $250 leftover.  Spread that $250 between each of your remaining debts.  For instance, let’s say your four debts have these balances:

CC #1: $10,000

CC #2: $3,500

CC #3: $5,000

CC #4: $1,500

At this point, don’t pay attention to the minimum payment.  Instead, add up all the debt, in this case, $20,000, and figure out which percentage of debt each is.  For example, CC #1 represents 50% of the remaining debt, so you’ll give it 50% of your remaining money each month, $125.  CC #2 is 17.5% of your remaining debt, so it will get 17.5% of your remaining money–$43.75, and so on.

Negotiate Credit Card Rates

If you think your current financial situation is temporary, call your credit card company and ask them to reduce the amount of interest you’re paying.  By doing this, more of your monthly payment will go to principal, lowering the overall amount that you owe.  You’ll likely be successful with agents lowering your rate about 50% of the time.

Negotiate Monthly Payments

If you feel your financial situation may last longer than a few months, call your lenders and explain your situation.

Credit card companies have the power to reduce your monthly payment.  When you negotiate with them, they will ask you how much you can pay monthly.  Using the math that you did above, let them know exactly how much you can pay a month.  (You’ll tell credit card company #2 you can only pay $43.75 even if your monthly payment is $70.)  The credit card companies will likely lower your payment to what you can pay because you’re making a good faith effort to meet your obligations.

Remember to call your other lenders.  Your mortgage company may be able to work with you to reduce or temporarily suspend payments.  You can also apply for deferrals on your student loans.

The important advice is to call these companies early, before you fall significantly behind.  Call them while you still have good credit.

Find a Side Hustle

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Reducing expenses is important when you have more bills than income, but the flip side is just as important.  Can you start a side hustle as a way to make extra money and boost your income?  I started freelance writing 10 years ago when our youngest was a baby.  Now, my freelance work contributes 25% of our monthly income.  Imagine adding an extra 10 or 20 percent to your current income?  How would that money help you improve your financial situation?

Final Thoughts

If you’re in the unfortunate position of having more bills than income, know that you’re not alone.  There are steps you can take to improve your financial situation and help you survive this current financial difficulty.  Most importantly, remember that this situation is temporary.  Things will get better.

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How to Survive Being Broke

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Many of us have been broke.  It’s not a fun place to be.  You may feel depressed and desperate, but recognizing that you won’t always be in this position is imperative.  There are steps you can take to live a more comfortable life financially.  Until then, here’s a primer on how to survive being broke.

How to Survive Being Broke

How to Survive Being Broke

If you’re broke, you must take care of your immediate needs first.

Short Term Action to Take

Maintain a Positive Attitude

Many people who are broke become depressed.  They don’t see any way out of their situation and can’t imagine a future where they’ll be in a better position.

To successfully beat being broke, you need a positive attitude.  Research stories of people who were broke and went on to become successful and much more comfortable financially such as Erin Brockovich (played by Julia Roberts in the movie Erin Brockovich) or Chris Gardner (played by Will Smith in the movie, The Pursuit of Happyness).

Remember that life can change quickly.  You may be broke now, but you likely won’t be in the same position in five years or even two years.

Live on Beans & Rice

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The next step is to trim your expenses as much as possible.  Since food is often the largest monthly expense behind rent, that’s the best place to start.  You may love to eat salmon and steak, but now is not the time to do so.  Now is the time to eat the proverbial beans and rice.  For instance, when my mom and dad were first married and broke, my mom would buy one pork chop, pound it flat, and then split it between the two of them.  Once they had two kids, she would buy two pork chops and pound them flat to make four servings.  Now is the time to stretch your food as much as possible and buy the least expensive food you can.

Choose Your Friends Carefully

What financial position are your friends in?  You’ll want to find friends who are mindful of their money and not spendthrifts.  When my husband and I were first married, we were broke.

Some of my coworkers invited us to go with them out to eat.  The other two couples were both financially comfortable, and they chose a Mexican restaurant.  To my dismay, there were no prices on the menu.  We ended up spending too much that night, even though we tried to make frugal choices.  It was just an expensive restaurant.  We couldn’t go out with my coworkers again because we couldn’t afford their lifestyle.

If you try to maintain friends who are in a better financial position than you, you may never become financially comfortable.

Entertain at Home

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Just because you’re broke, you don’t have to give up your social life.  Instead, change the way that you socialize.  Instead of going to a bar or restaurant and spending a lot of money, invite friends to your home.  Have a potluck at your house or have a game night.  Once a month my parents used to have their friends over in the summer for a volleyball night.  Be creative.  You’ll find there are plenty of ways to socialize without spending a lot of money.

Find a Hobby That Pays

Sometimes when people are broke, they have a lot of time, but not much money.  If that’s your circumstance, find a hobby that pays.  For instance, my uncle started a small side business for athletes at his former high school.  He would comb through micro fiche to find all of the articles for a particular year about the high school football team.  He’d print these out and bind them all together and sell them to the athletes.  He made some money on the side, and the former athletes had a scrap book of all the old newspaper clippings from their glory days.

Other ideas might include gardening, crafting and selling the product on Etsy, doing genealogy research for someone, building web sites for others, etc.  You’re only limited by your imagination in what you can do.

Long Term

When you’re broke, you may immediately think just of the short-term, but you must also think of the long-term.  How will you get out of this situation so you’re not broke your entire life?

There are several important steps you should take.

Earn a Degree

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If a degree would help you secure a better job, than look into taking college classes.  When you’re already broke, you may feel like you have you have no time or money to do so.  However, if you don’t take steps to improve your situation, you’ll remain broke for much of your life.

I had a friend, Becca, who was raising her niece and nephew.  Money was tight, but she prioritized her education.  She took one or two classes a semester, putting in much of her study time early in the morning or at night when the kids were asleep.  It took her many years to get her degree, but she did.  Now, she lives a comfortable, middle class life and has a professional job.

Learn about Finance

If you don’t already have a solid background on personal finance, now is the time to learn.  This doesn’t have to cost any money.  You can borrow books from the library, take free finance classes online, and read blogs.  Learn all you can about managing money.  I’m not just talking about ways to save money, but ways to build your emergency fund and invest so you don’t end up broke again once you get out of your current situation.

Final Thoughts

How to survive being broke is a challenge for many people.  However, the first step is a mental one.  Realize that you’re currently broke, but you won’t be broke for the rest of your life.  You can make both short-term and long-term changes to improve your life and vastly improve your financial situation.  Many, many other people have done so.  Learn about those people and take concrete action to improve your current situation.