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Dave Says: It’s a Credit Card Addiction

December 15, 2023 By Dave Ramsey Leave a Comment

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Dear Dave,

I think my mother-in-law has a serious credit card problem. She can’t afford stuff, but she shops anyway, chalks up more and more debt, acquires more credit cards, and thinks she’ll pay for it all later somehow. Her ex-husband has bailed her out a few times, but he’s unwilling to help anymore. My wife and I, and my wife’s sister, want to address this issue, but we’re all worried about her reaction, and we don’t know where to start. Do you have any advice?

Randall

Dear Randall,

First, everyone involved should understand they’re likely to receive an angry response from this lady if she’s confronted over her actions. Sometimes people get ticked off when they hear the truth, especially when it’s connected to their own misbehavior. It may even be a good idea for your wife and her sister to get some advice from a family counselor beforehand. Really, what we’re talking about here is an intervention.

Also, you need to stay out of the discussion. This is something for her daughters to handle. Support your wife and her sister through it all, but if you’re in there asking questions and probing around, you’re liable to come off as the evil son-in-law. And you folks don’t need to add any more problems to the mix.

They need to sit down with her in a quiet setting, one where there are no interruptions, no television and no one else. Start with the fact that they love her and care about her deeply. That’s very important in a situation like this. But they also have to walk through what’s really going on, and let her know they’re tired of watching her destroy herself, and her finances, with her irresponsible behavior.

If she had a drinking problem, you’d want to try to make her see how alcohol was hurting her and the relationships she has with her family. In this case, she basically has a credit card addiction. And it’s wreaking havoc on her financial well-being and people who care about her.

So, show as much love and understanding as possible. But someone needs to say something soon.

— Dave

* Dave Ramsey is an eight-time national bestselling author, personal finance expert and host of The Ramsey Show. He has appeared on Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, Today, Fox News, CNN, Fox Business and many more. Since 1992, Dave has helped people take control of their money, build wealth and enhance their lives. He also serves as CEO for Ramsey Solutions.

dave ramsey
Dave Ramsey

Dave Ramsey is an eight-time national bestselling author, personal finance expert, and host of “The Ramsey Show.” He has appeared on “Good Morning America,” “CBS This Morning,” “Today,” Fox News, CNN, Fox Business, and many more. Since 1992, Dave has helped people regain control of their money, build wealth, and enhance their lives. He also serves as CEO of Ramsey Solutions and is the author of numerous books including Baby Steps Millionaires: How Ordinary People Built Extraordinary Wealth–and How You Can Too.

www.ramseysolutions.com/

Filed Under: Dave Ramsey Tagged With: credit card, Credit Card Addiction, dave ramsey, dave ramsey tips, dear dave

Why I Prefer to Pay with a Credit Card

May 8, 2023 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

Two credit cards sitting on a table

I’ve been interested in personal finance, budgeting, and money management for at least 25 years. During that time, I have repeatedly seen the advice to pay cash to best manage your money. Proponents argue that paying cash limits spending and makes you feel pain, so you won’t want to spend as freely. However, I prefer to pay with a credit card. I’ve tried paying with cash, and I find it a hassle.

Why I Prefer to Pay with a Credit Card

There are several reasons why I prefer to pay with a credit card.

Keep Track of Spending

When I pay with a credit card, I can keep track of my spending. Whenever I pay with cash, I forget what I bought and have no record unless I got a receipt and saved that. With my credit card, I can go to the credit card statement and see what I spent where.

Convenience

Paying with a credit card is more convenient. When I experimented with using cash, two things often happened. First, I would forget my cash, get to the store, and realize I had no money. I’d have to drive back home to get my cash. Second, if I went to a gas station, I didn’t feel comfortable leaving my young children in the car alone while I paid. I would have to get them out of the car to pay the cashier in the store. What a pain! Swiping a credit card at the pump was easier and safer.

Accumulate Rewards

I always use credit cards that have rewards programs. We pay them off at least every month, sometimes weekly. Because we use the cards responsibly, we aren’t stuck paying interest fees.

When we lived in Arizona, I used the credit card rewards to pay for our trips back home to Michigan. I would save rewards for a year or two until we had enough money to finance our trip. Now, my husband and I have moved closer to family, so we are using the rewards to plan international travel.

Extended Warranties

Many credit cards offer extended warranties. For instance, we recently bought a laptop and a new dryer. We charged both purchases on our American Express card because American Express offers extended warranties, saving us money from purchasing additional protection.

Rental Car Insurance

Another perk of paying with a credit card is that some cards offer car insurance for rental cars. Rental car insurance can run several hundred dollars, so this is a considerable saving. However, ensure you know what card offers this service and use that car to pay for your rental.

Protected from Theft

Thief dressed in black with a black mask holding a stack of money

If you carry cash and lose your money or it’s stolen, you’re out of luck. That money is gone. However, if you use a credit card and someone fraudulently charges something, the credit card company will erase that charge. You are not responsible. That alone is an excellent reason to pay with credit cards rather than cash.

Maintains Credit Score

A sound credit card is essential for low car loans and mortgage interest rates. In addition, a good credit score can save you money on your car insurance and help you rent an apartment.

When you use a credit card regularly and pay it off, you help build or maintain your credit score. Cash cannot do that.

Two Drawbacks to Paying with a Credit Card

Of course, there are two drawbacks to using a credit card for most of your spending.

Credit Cards Get Stolen

I have never had it physically stolen in the more than 25 years I’ve used credit cards. However, I have had people make, or try to make, fraudulent charges at least four times. Each time, the credit card company caught the fraud, often before the purchase went through. However, the company then had to cancel my card and issue a new one, which was inconvenient. I could not use my credit card for a few days while waiting for the new one, and I had to change all my autopayments that used that particular credit card. Even worse, if I forgot to change all of them, some companies billed me a $20 missed payment charge since the credit card was no longer valid.

More recently, I had a scammer steal my credit card rewards points, but the credit card company refunded them for me when I noticed.

You May Overspend

If you are not disciplined and lack a budget system, you may overspend when using credit cards. When I was in my 20s, a friend said she thought of credit cards as “free money.” Unfortunately, many think this way and mindlessly spend more when using credit cards instead of cash.

How I Handle Credit Cards in the Budget

To avoid overspending, I use my credit card only for purchases I had already budgeted for. For instance, we use You Need a Budget (YNAB), and I have a separate category for dining out. So if I only have $20 in the dining out fund, and the family wants to go out to eat, we don’t at that time because there’s not enough money in the dining out category. So, by utilizing my budget in this way, I can avoid overspending on my credit card.

Likewise, this year we needed to buy a new dryer. When ours stopped working last week, I charged it with no qualms because I had enough money in my home maintenance fund to cover the purchase.

Final Thoughts

Choosing to pay cash or use a credit card is a personal decision. I prefer to pay with a credit card because it helps me monitor my spending easier than using cash. Because I combine my credit card usage with my budgeting, I rarely overspend on my credit card. In addition, we pay off our credit card each month (or earlier), so we do not have to pay interest fees. If you currently have a credit card balance, paying with cash until your credit card is paid off may make more sense.

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MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in New York, where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: credit cards, General Finance Tagged With: cash, credit card, credit card rewards, paying cash

The Biggest Reason to Always Pay with a Credit Card

March 7, 2022 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

Reason to Always Pay with a Credit Card

Some financial advisors and gurus urge all of their audience to use cash only. They argue if you use cash, you can’t overspend. Further, they say you’re also more conscious of your spending when you use cash. While these arguments may be true for some credit card users, they’re not for all. Many people can use credit cards and stay within their budgets. In addition, paying with credit cards offers several advantages, one of which is particularly important.

The Biggest Reason to Always Pay with Credit Card

The biggest reason to always pay with a credit card is the purchase protection. I saw this in effect recently with my mom and a $450 treadmill she purchased last fall.

The Credit Card Purchase

My mom is trying to improve her fitness level, so last September, she bought a treadmill on Amazon. The treadmill was never perfect—she complained about how hard it was to walk on it. When I visited her recently, I tried the treadmill, and it felt heavy and slow. A few days into my visit, the treadmill would turn on and off, but you couldn’t get the tread to move.

Customer Service Was a Bust

We discovered the treadmill company is in China, and the only phone number for support was a Chinese number. I emailed support and told them what the problem was. The company took two days to get back to me and then asked for a video demonstrating the problem. I sent that and then waited another two days for a reply. Next, they told me how to disassemble part of the treadmill and send them more videos showing the problem. I did, and then I didn’t get a reply for several days.

Contacting Amazon Didn’t Help

Meanwhile, I contacted Amazon to ask for a refund. Amazon said they couldn’t help me because the return window closed in December. When I mentioned that the treadmill had a one-year warranty, Amazon said I had to work with the manufacturer.

Customer Service Still Refused to Help

Reasons to Always Pay with a Credit Card

By now, I had been going back and forth with the treadmill company’s customer service for approximately 10 days. Finally, I said I wanted a refund as the treadmill was under warranty and shouldn’t break after five months of ownership. The company told me to contact Amazon to activate the warranty, which I had already done, to no avail.

Contacting the Credit Card Company Made the Difference

I then contacted the credit card company and explained what had happened. After taking down all the details, the credit card company issued my mom a full refund. Having the ability to go straight to the credit card company to get a refund when all else fails is the biggest reason to always pay with a credit card.

Final Thoughts

My opinion to always pay with a credit card, especially with large purchases, was reaffirmed with this situation. Further, I learned that when purchasing something on Amazon, checking out reviews is not enough. I must also verify where the company is based. A company based in China may be challenging to work with and receive assistance.

We used my mom’s credit card refund to purchase a new treadmill from a company based in Arkansas. If she has trouble in the future, I’m confident communicating with the company will be easier.

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MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in New York, where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: General Finance Tagged With: amazon, cash, credit card, customer service, warranties

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