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Being Debt Responsible

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What does being “debt responsible” mean, and how do you do it?

Being debt responsible means taking responsibility for your debt and it’s payoff without making excuses or trying to find easy ways out through debt write-off, negotiation with creditors, or bankruptcy.  In a nutshell, if you signed on the dotted line, you must pay it off.

Why must you be debt responsible?  The most commonly referenced reason that you must be debt responsible is that, by signing the note, you were guaranteeing that the debt would be paid.  You also accepted the conditions of repayment.  Some of those conditions, such as interest rate, are somewhat negotiable even after you sign the note, but not the amount of the actual debt.  The most important reason for being debt responsible (to me at least), is the moral requirement.  Morally, whether you look at it religiously or secularly, you have a responsibility to repay the debt.   Again, it goes back to your acceptance of the debt and it’s conditions.  Morally, you have a responsibility to uphold your part of the bargain.

Luckily, for most of us, it’s extremely easy to be debt responsible.  We just have to pay our bills each month.  But what happens when an emergency strikes and you can no longer pay your bills?  That depends.  Can you really not pay your bills, or can you not pay your bills because you have to go out to Red Lobster next Thursday?  If you really, truly cannot pay your bills, you have what is one of the only exceptions to any of the above rules.  You are free to negotiate as much as possible to reduce your payments, delay your payments, and even reduce or eliminate your interest payments.  Only in the most extreme cases should you try and reduce the debt or eliminate the debt.

Being debt responsible isn’t always fun.  (Who am I trying to kid?  It’s never fun.)  But, it’s the right thing to do, not just morally, but for your personal finance as well.

That Your Daddy’s Car?

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I want to share a story with you about work. About working for what you want, so that you can not only get what you want, but pay for it with cash.
My roommate in college (one of many) graduated college with no college loans. Not because he had scholarships, but because he paid for it with cash. Not only that, but he had a nice pickup and an even nicer classic car. It was a very nice drop-top convertible with a deep burgundy metal flake paint job. Every summer, he did a little bit of work on it until it was painstakingly nice.
68mustangblue_smallOne day, while we were out and about enjoying the sun with the top down, we happened to stop somewhere. It’s been a while ago, so I don’t exactly remember where. While we were there, some older guys (I’m guessing 40-50ish) came over to look at the car.
After asking the normal courtesy questions, like what kind of motor was in it and if the seats were original, one of the guys asked the wrong question.  “That your Daddy’s Car?”

My roommate isn’t exactly a shy person, but even he will admit that, at first, he was taken aback by the question. Despite our age (21ish), he had worked hard to put that car in the condition that it was in.  It was his car.  Not his daddy’s, his.  After he regained his senses, he made sure that the man who asked the question knew that it was his car. That he had done the work and he had paid for it.  The guy laughed his question off like it was a joke, although it was obvious that he hadn’t meant it jokingly.

Like most stories, this one has a moral at the end.  Or, at least, I’m giving it one.  Giving us all something to learn from it.  No matter how hard you work for something, there will always be that guy who will assume that you got it handed to you.  Nice car?  Must be your daddy’s.  Nice house?  Inheritance.  Or more loan that it’s worth.  Or you make a lot of money.  Or.  Or. Or.  The point is, they will find a way to assume that you got whatever it is by some other method than actual hard work.  And, like my roommate, you might feel that you need to set them straight.  Whether you do or not, is irrelevant.  What you need to take from this story is that when you set those goals, and you work hard to reach them, you must expect that there will be few people who will believe that you got it by working for it.  Some, you will be able to set straight.  Others will continue to think it no matter how many times you tell them.  Being disciplined and hard working requires a thicker skin.  You’ve got to be able to ignore the people who won’t believe.  They believe that anyone who has nice things got it the same way the majority of other people do.  Credit.  But you know better.  You got your things the Beating Broke Way!

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Yearly Bonus on the Way

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Yay!  The yearly performance bonus that my company gives out is coming on Monday!

The bonus is based on a set of goals for the company.  If the company reaches all of the goals, then we get 100% of the bonus.  Each goal is set a little differently, so one might only count for 10% and another for 50%.  In any case, we got the whole 100% of the bonus. The whole bonus means that I’ll be getting my regular paycheck on Monday along with the bonus check for 100 hours.  It’ll be a tish more than what my regular check is.  Basically, an extra paycheck this month.

My wife and I have been debating what to do with the money.  Of course, due to the timing of the bonus, the idea of being a little more generous during the holiday season always comes up, but we’ve luckily talked most of our family and friends into spending limits so that’s out.  Most likely (we haven’t decided entirely) we’ll use most of the bonus for paying off debt.  We’ve got one credit card that would almost be taken care of by the bonus, so it’ll be getting a check soon too.  I think we’ll save a bit of it aside for some home improvements that we’ve got planned as well.

What about you?  Did you get your bonus this year or did the economy ruin it for you?  If you did get it, how do you plan on using it? Or, how does the lack of your bonus affect your budget?