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The Smell of Napalm

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Napalm is a sticky, flammable substance that was invented in the 40’s, and used in several wars.  Because of it’s stickiness, it attaches itself to everything, then burns at somewhere over 800 degrees.  When it’s done, there’s no more jungle.  No more enemies walking around.  It’s vile enough, that it’s use on concentrations of civilians was declared a war crime by the UN in 1980.

By now, you’re probably wondering why a site about personal finance is discussing Napalm. Well.  Here’s the thing.  Debt is a funny thing.  Most of us have it.  Some of us have quite a bit.  And most of us would like to get rid of it.  In fact, most of us would just love to Napalm our debt.  One fell swoop.  Drop some sticky burning substance on it and have it gone in a few short minutes.  We’d like that so much that we buy lottery tickets, raffle tickets, and buy books and products that promise some get rich quick scheme.  People with debt are always looking for the debt Napalm.

We like to fantasize about what we would do if we won a couple million in the lottery and set our debt on flames.  Erasing it, with one fell swoop, while getting rich at the same time.  Much like Kilgore in Apocalypse Now, we love the “smell of [debt] napalm in the morning.”

Napalm: War on debt Crime

Instead, we’re given the “debt snowball“, or the “debt avalanche.”

The truth is that debt is so easily gained, we want to find a solution to it that is just as quick.  An afternoon with a credit card and a shopping mall can add thousands to the total. Thousands that could take us years to pay off.  We wish we could find the Napalm to incinerate our debt.

Some people think that bankruptcy is that Napalm.  But, as quickly as a bankruptcy can eradicate your debt, it doesn’t leave you without any scars.  For many years afterwards, you, and your credit score, will suffer the consequences of the bankruptcy.  Credit will be nearly impossible to attain.  Prospective landlords and employers are even running credit checks before renting or hiring people.

We need to stop looking for the Napalm.  We need to stop assuming that all is lost.  We need to take some responsibility, find ways to make more money, save more money, and pay down more debt.  We need to stop adding more debt.

If you want to get rid of your debt, it’s a slow burn, not a Napalm strike.  Even in the world of personal finance, Napalm is a war crime.

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All Is Not Lost

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I can’t tell you the number of times that, in our seemingly never-ending struggle with debt, that I’ve seriously contemplated just giving up.  Just throwing in the towel and saying f-it.  You know it’s bad when you catch yourself fantasizing about it.  About how much easier your life would be without the struggle.  Just declaring bankruptcy, taking the hit on your credit score, and moving on with your life.

Even now, after having written about personal finance for over five years, I still find myself in that place occasionally.  We let our budgeting lapse, and inevitably our spending gets out of whack again.  Something happens, and the emergency fund just doesn’t seem to cover it all.  Or, worse, doesn’t seem to replenish itself as quickly as it should.

someecards.com - I can't believe I work this hard to be this poor.I can try and lay the blame somewhere.  That always helps, right?  If it isn’t my fault, then I can’t be blamed for it.  I can’t be the one that everyone points to as the failure.  I can deflect that attention to someone or something else.  That helps.  Until it doesn’t.

Every single time, it’s really me that deserves the blame.  It wasn’t the boss that refused to give me a raise.  It wasn’t the heater in the car that needed to be fixed.  And it certainly wasn’t the kids that needed to eat.  It was me.  Every.  Single. Time.

I failed to negotiate the raise.  I failed to have enough saved up to make that repair.  I failed to budget properly to make sure that we wouldn’t have to cut corners at the grocery store.  Me.  I did that.

I could just give up.  I could miss having to work harder to be paid appropriately.  I could miss having to pay attention to my budget to save money for car repairs, or to pay for groceries.  I could do that.  Giving up would be so easy.

Until it isn’t.

Obligations of the Buyer

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With all the news lately about people “walking away” from their mortgages, increasing bankruptcies, and debt consolidation/repayment schemes, I got to thinking about what the obligations of the buyer are.  And, also, the ways that we as a society have made it easy to sidestep those obligations.

Obligations

What are our obligations when we buy something?  Does buying a pack of gum carry different obligations than buying a house?  Naturally, we have obligations to ourselves as to the upkeep and use of that which we buy.  If I buy a house, I have an obligation to myself to do what I can to make that house last as long as possible and remain structurally sound.  If I buy a pack of gum, it’s a lesser commitment, but that obligation still exists as an obligation to not let my purchase go to waste and either chew the gum or give it to someone to chew.

What obligations to we have to the seller when we buy something?  There are two ways to look at this.  The first scenario involves paying cash for something.  If the full purchase price that was negotiated is satisfied, I don’t believe you have any obligation to the seller.  However, if the purchase involves debt of some sort, there are obligations that arise.  If you purchase with a credit card, there is an obligation to pay that debt to the credit card company.  The same is true for a mortgage, a car, and even a pack of gum.  Not only do you have an obligation to pay the debt, but you also have another obligation to yourself to learn what that debt is going to cost you.  This last obligation is the one that was most ignored during the fiasco that we like to call a housing bubble.  Many ignored the facts of what their new houses were going to cost and bought them anyways.

Sidesteps

In the pursuit of a consumerist society, these obligations can sometimes get in the way.  If I ignored the obligation to know the cost of debt and bought a house anyways, I likely entered into an agreement to pay a mortgage company a set amount each month.  Recently, it’s become popularized to demonize the banks that lent the money to people as the sole problem and, as a result, it’s become no big deal to merely “walk away” (default, or stop paying) on a mortgage.  The reasoning follows that it’s better to default on the mortgage than remain paying on a house that is worth less than what the purchase price was, or that has had payments adjusted higher.

Bankruptcy OK!In the same way, the obligation to pay credit card bills, auto loans, and most other consumer debt has been sidestepped.  It’s no longer a social stigma to declare bankruptcy.  Many, knowing they are about to file for bankruptcy, will go out and max out their credit lines in anticipation of the bankruptcy cleaning the slate.

As these sidesteps become more and more common, the social stigma will decrease even further.  If everybody is doing it, it’s hard to demonize something.  You might demonize your friend.  Or relative.

Of course, this isn’t to say that defaulting on a mortgage should never happen.  Or that bankruptcy should never be declared.  It happens.  It’s the rampant social acceptance of these situations that is troubling.  What happens when it becomes commonplace for mortgage borrowers to default?  The loans become more expensive.  The banks have to cover their costs to repossess the house, the staff to service the loan, and associated costs with trying to resell the house.  Where is that money going to come from?  They aren’t going to just pay it out of the kindness of their hearts.  They’ll pass it on to the customer.  Suddenly, mortgages will become even more front loaded with fees and interest.  When bankruptcies become more commonplace, credit availability is going to decrease.  We’ve already seen that recently.  People who could easily get a credit card before will be denied.

All of this is all the more reason to avoid debt whenever possible.  If society isn’t going to do it, hold yourself to your obligations as a buyer.  Obligate yourself to paying off your debt.  Then, obligate yourself to paying in cash from then on.

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