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Why It’s Okay to Make Financial Mistakes

February 24, 2020 By MelissaB 1 Comment

What’s the worst financial mistake you’ve made?  Ask any adult, and you’ll likely hear about thousand dollar or even hundreds of thousands of dollar mistakes.  Ouch.  We’d all love to go through life with a great handle on our money, only making smart decisions and watching our money grow in investment accounts.  But life isn’t that way.  Sometimes we’re just stupid with money, and other times, we think we’re making a smart decision only to find out later that we were wrong.  But that’s okay.  In fact, there are many reasons why it’s okay to make financial mistakes.

Why It's Okay to Make Financial Mistakes

Why It’s Okay to Make Financial Mistakes

Chances are you’re more financially savvy because of the mistakes you’ve made!

You Learn

The most important reason why it’s okay to make financial mistakes is that you learn from those mistakes.

When I was in my early 20s and just out of college, I was working at a job and was told that I would be getting a raise in the next few weeks.  I increased my meager standard of living because I knew the raise was in the works.  But week after week went by, and I didn’t get the raise.  In fact, a few months later, the company went out of business.  Not only was I out of a job, but I had accrued some debt by raising my lifestyle prematurely.

A few years ago, my husband was guaranteed a raise.  It was supposed to come in August, but it didn’t actually come until December.  Thanks to the lesson I learned in my 20s, we were very careful to avoid lifestyle creep.

You Can Help Others

When you’ve learned from your financial mistakes, you can help others avoid the same mistakes that you made.

Why It's Okay to Make Financial Mistakes
Photo by Irina Murza on Unsplash

When I went to graduate school, I did my best to avoid student loans.  I chose a college that paid my tuition and gave me a small stipend for teaching two classes a semester.  But after I graduated, I wanted to teach at a community college.  Those full-time jobs are inaccessible if you don’t have experience.  The only way to get experience is to teach as a part-timer, and part-time community college jobs pay next to nothing (about $1,000 for a 16 week class).

I went into credit card debt trying to maintain my college lifestyle (which was already frugal) while earning poverty level income.  The next year, I did get a full-time community college job, but I entered that job with over ten thousand dollars in credit card debt thanks to trying to subsist on such a low income.

When it comes to encouraging my kids to save and plan for college, I urge them to try to get scholarships that will also help them pay their living expenses.  We’re sending my son to SAT prep classes so he can score high enough to be in the running for a lucrative scholarship from our local college.

Final Thoughts

Making money mistakes is part of your history.  Hopefully, you’ve grown and made smarter decisions because of your financial mistakes, which is an excellent reason why it’s okay to make financial mistakes.

However, if you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over again, i.e. running up your credit cards, paying them down, and then running them up again, you may need to explore more deeply why you keep following the same negative behavior patterns.

Filed Under: credit cards, Financial Mistakes, General Finance Tagged With: credit cards, money mistakes, Student Loans

How We’re Helping Our Teen Save for College

February 10, 2020 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

College is getting more expensive every year, and with the student loan crisis, more and more students and parents are trying to forego student loans.  Avoiding student loans, if possible, is a smart way to go.  We should know; my husband and I are still paying off his student loans from graduate school, which he finished eight years ago.  So, we want to do everything we can to help our own children go to college without accruing any debt.  How we’re helping our teen save for college involves a multi-pronged approach.

How We're Helping Our Teen Save for College

How We’re Helping Our Teen Save for College

There are four ways we’re helping our teen save for college:

Using an Employee Discount

My husband is employed at our local university, so our children will get 75% off the price of tuition.  While this school currently costs approximately $12,000 for in-state tuition for a year, our children, thanks to the discount, will only need to pay $3,000 a year.

Matching Our Teen’s Savings

From the time our children were young, we set up a savings account for college.  We match each dollar that our child saves in this account.  Our three children all have varying balances, and one of our children is a much more prolific saver than the other two.  While this account won’t cover their $3,000 a year that they will have to pay for college, it will likely cover their textbooks for several semesters.

Paying for AP Tests

 

How We're Helping Our Teen Save for College
Photo by Ben Mullins on Unsplash

Our teen is bright and this year decided to challenge himself with an AP history course.  We paid for the AP test that he will take in May.  If he scores a 4 or a 5 on this test, he will be able to earn college credit for the course.

Next year, he plans to take several AP classes and tests, and we’ll pay for those, too, in the hopes that he can score high enough and reduce the amount of time he needs to be in college.

Finding Scholarships

Our teen took a practice PSAT at school, and while his score was okay, it wasn’t stellar.  Since he has a 4.0 in school, if he can raise his SAT score by at least 100, he will qualify for a $6,000 scholarship from our university.  (The higher the scores, the higher the scholarship amount he qualifies for.  If he could get his score even more than 100 points higher, he would qualify for an even larger scholarship.)

We don’t have money to pay for SAT tutoring, but having it would be valuable, especially if it helps our child raise his score and qualify for the scholarship.  I found a scholarship offered through a private foundation that could be used for SAT prep.  We applied, received the scholarship, and he’s begun tutoring this semester.

Final Thoughts

Money has been tight throughout our marriage, so we’ve never had much money to set aside for our children’s college education.  (Our priority has been paying off our student loans and saving for retirement.)

However, helping a child in other ways rather than just paying tuition outright can also be valuable.  This is how we’re helping our teen save for college.

 

Filed Under: Children, Married Money, Student Loans Tagged With: children, college, debt, kids, Student Loans

What Happens if you Default on a Student Loan

November 23, 2018 By Thomas Bawdy Leave a Comment

This post in collaboration with Paul Brian.

Believe it or not, student loans are one of the most secured loans a lender can issue. In the vast majority of cases, student loans cannot be discharged under bankruptcy protection, nor can they be negotiated away under a debt settlement program. If you have one, you will satisfy the terms, there’s simply no escaping it.

Here’s what happens if you default on a student loan.

First, What Constitutes Default?

The exact conditions of a default vary a bit from lender to lender, but in the case of Federally backed student loans, nine months of missed payments will get your student loan classified as being in default. It could also be found to be in default if you violate some other aspect of the loan agreement, or got the loan under fraudulent circumstances. Although, defaulting can be avoided or delayed when you refinance student loans to have reduced interest rates.

If any of the above happens, you’ll experience the following.

1. Forfeiture of All Loan Benefits

The loan will become due and payable immediately—including interest payments and late fees (if any). You will not qualify for loan forgiveness, deferment or forbearance. If you decide to go back to school and have a loan in default, you can forget about all forms of financial aid.

2. Assignment to a Collection Agency

Get ready for incessant phone calls, text messages and emails. These people have an uncanny knack for knowing the most inopportune moment to contact you and hound you mercilessly (while staying well within legal bounds) until you agree to a plan to repay the loan and stick to it. You can also be taken to court in extreme situations.

3. A Negative Entry on Your Credit Report

The default will be reported to the credit agencies, which will pull down your credit score significantly. A huge part of your credit score (35 percent) is loan payment history. A default on your record will pretty much wipe that category out. This will make it difficult for you to get a mortgage, rent an apartment, buy a car, get insurance and in some cases, even get a job.

4. Wage Garnishment

If your lender takes you to court and gets a judgment against you, the court will order your wages garnished until the amount of the loan (as well as fees and interest) is paid. This will mean an embarrassing situation at work and a large portion of your income will go straight to paying off the loan—before you ever see it.

Avoiding Default

If you’re concerned you might be about miss payments, contact your lender at once and try to work out some sort of an arrangement to help you stay on track. If you have a Federal loan, you might qualify for forbearance or a deferment of up to six months to help you get your finances back in order. If you’re still in good standing, you might be able to renegotiate the loan to lower your payments. The key is catching things as early as possible so you have the best options.

Getting Out of Default

The good news is default status isn’t the end of the world. All they really want is the money. Find a way to repay them in full and the default will be dismissed. Yes, it will take a while for your credit score to recover, but getting it marked “paid in full” will help.

Of course, if your student loan is in trouble, odds are many of your other debts are too. This is when you might consider hiring a debt relief firm.While these companies don’t deal with federal student loans, they could help settle your credit card, personal loan, and medical debt, which could make it easier to repay the student loan. As you explore this option, take some time to research information such as these Freedom Debt Relief reviews to make sure you choose a good company.

In conclusion, student loans might be some of the biggest loans you take on in your life. But unlike other loans, once they are taken out, payment is inescapable. Do everything you can to avoid defaulting on your student loans.

Filed Under: Credit Score, loans, Student Loans Tagged With: borrowing, education, Student Loans

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