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What is Freedom Worth

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It’s a bit of a cliche now, but we all know the scene from Braveheart where Mel Gibson’s character screams “FRREEEEDDDDDOOOOMMMM!!!” as some medieval device or another removes an offscreen part of his anatomy.  Despite the cost, he never gave up his fight for freedom.

And really, can you put a value on your freedom?  And are you really free?

You get up at 5 a.m. every morning to hop through the shower, commute to some office somewhere, and sit at a desk for 8 hours so some company can make a few more bucks.  Oh, and they might pay you for it.  Are you really free?  Can you do what you please?  Why not?

We all accept the yoke of the “job” because we want things.  And we need things.  The things we need are relatively minor in most cases.  It’s the things that we want that really drive us to go to work each day.  Part of our goal as Personal Finance students (that’s what we all are) is to realize what wants we really care about achieving.  An example; As usual, black Friday rolled around with lots of great deals.  Several such deals revolved around various sizes of LCD and Plasma HDTV sets.  I really, really want one.  Badly want one.  As a result, I’ve struggled with the issue all week.  Should I go get one? Shouldn’t I?  In the end, I decided against it.  Firstly, it wasn’t in our budget.  I shouldn’t have to go farther than that, but I did.  Secondly, I’ve gotten much better about recognizing and separating wants from needs.  I do want a new fancy tv.  But I don’t need it.  And until I do, it’s going to the bottom of the want list.

Recently, there has been lots of talk about our economy and how bad it is getting.  Along with that has been talk about the thousands upon thousands of layoffs that have been announced.  Luckily, I’m not one of them.  Yet.  I really don’t foresee me joining them.  For that I am thankful.  Or at least I was until I read the Fire Fly Manifesto.  Ok, the thought of losing my job is enough to put my blood pressure into previously unseen heights and give me a stress ulcer.  But that manifesto makes it sound like it’s all gonna be ok.

It’s an incredibly motivating piece.  And I truly came away from it wondering if it wouldn’t be better if I did join the corps of the unemployed.  And then I broke out in sweats.  But I did think about it.  And there is a part of me that wishes I had the freedom of the unemployed to do with my time as I choose.

If you have recently lost your job (especially you) or if you feel that your job is threatened, you need to read this paper.  It’s short and sweet and free.  The author is pushing his site and his upcoming book, but only lightly and the Fire Fly Manifesto really stands on it’s own.  Even if you don’t feel threatened, you should read it.

Good PF Books for Wedding Gifts?

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My brother is currently scheduled to get himself married in the middle part of next month.  As a result, I’ve spent an ungodly amount of money on plane tickets, hotel and rental cars for the event.  Added to that will be food for a few days for all three of us (Me, My Wife and Our Son), a Tux rental, and who knows what other stuff.  My brother lives in Anaheim (thank goodness it isn’t a New York wedding!), and apparently, there is a mutant giant mouse that runs rampant around those parts and must be seen by anyone under the age of about 100.

In any case, despite the rampant fiscal spending of the trip, I thought I might pass along a few of the personal finance books that I’ve found useful in our married life.  That is a pretty short list, but a distinguished one.  Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover, Is top of the list. I might throw inThe Millionaire Next Door as well. But those are about the limit of the books that both my wife and I found to be useful. I’ve read a few others that were somewhat informative to me, but I’m trying to find books that are specific to couples.

A quick search of Amazon finds a few others like one by David Bach called Smart Couples Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Creating a Rich Future for You and Your Partner, and Larry Burkett’s Complete Financial Guide for Young Couples: A Lifetime Approach to Spending, Saving and Investing. I’ve never read either, so don’t know if they are worth the time or not.  That’s where you all come in.

Do you and your partner have a book that was important to your finances?  Something that made the transition to couples money management a little bit easier?  Let us all know in the comments.  I’ll try and get a list together and share it all with everyone a little later this month.