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How to Survive Being Broke

July 20, 2020 By MelissaB 3 Comments

Many of us have been broke.  It’s not a fun place to be.  You may feel depressed and desperate, but recognizing that you won’t always be in this position is imperative.  There are steps you can take to live a more comfortable life financially.  Until then, here’s a primer on how to survive being broke.

How to Survive Being Broke

How to Survive Being Broke

If you’re broke, you must take care of your immediate needs first.

Short Term Action to Take

Maintain a Positive Attitude

Many people who are broke become depressed.  They don’t see any way out of their situation and can’t imagine a future where they’ll be in a better position.

To successfully beat being broke, you need a positive attitude.  Research stories of people who were broke and went on to become successful and much more comfortable financially such as Erin Brockovich (played by Julia Roberts in the movie Erin Brockovich) or Chris Gardner (played by Will Smith in the movie, The Pursuit of Happyness).

Remember that life can change quickly.  You may be broke now, but you likely won’t be in the same position in five years or even two years.

Live on Beans & Rice

How to Survive Being Broke
Photo by Paul Hanaoka on Unsplash

The next step is to trim your expenses as much as possible.  Since food is often the largest monthly expense behind rent, that’s the best place to start.  You may love to eat salmon and steak, but now is not the time to do so.  Now is the time to eat the proverbial beans and rice.  For instance, when my mom and dad were first married and broke, my mom would buy one pork chop, pound it flat, and then split it between the two of them.  Once they had two kids, she would buy two pork chops and pound them flat to make four servings.  Now is the time to stretch your food as much as possible and buy the least expensive food you can.

Choose Your Friends Carefully

What financial position are your friends in?  You’ll want to find friends who are mindful of their money and not spendthrifts.  When my husband and I were first married, we were broke.

Some of my coworkers invited us to go with them out to eat.  The other two couples were both financially comfortable, and they chose a Mexican restaurant.  To my dismay, there were no prices on the menu.  We ended up spending too much that night, even though we tried to make frugal choices.  It was just an expensive restaurant.  We couldn’t go out with my coworkers again because we couldn’t afford their lifestyle.

If you try to maintain friends who are in a better financial position than you, you may never become financially comfortable.

Entertain at Home

How to Survive Being Broke
Photo by Johanna Dahlberg on Unsplash

Just because you’re broke, you don’t have to give up your social life.  Instead, change the way that you socialize.  Instead of going to a bar or restaurant and spending a lot of money, invite friends to your home.  Have a potluck at your house or have a game night.  Once a month my parents used to have their friends over in the summer for a volleyball night.  Be creative.  You’ll find there are plenty of ways to socialize without spending a lot of money.

Find a Hobby That Pays

Sometimes when people are broke, they have a lot of time, but not much money.  If that’s your circumstance, find a hobby that pays.  For instance, my uncle started a small side business for athletes at his former high school.  He would comb through micro fiche to find all of the articles for a particular year about the high school football team.  He’d print these out and bind them all together and sell them to the athletes.  He made some money on the side, and the former athletes had a scrap book of all the old newspaper clippings from their glory days.

Other ideas might include gardening, crafting and selling the product on Etsy, doing genealogy research for someone, building web sites for others, etc.  You’re only limited by your imagination in what you can do.

Long Term

When you’re broke, you may immediately think just of the short-term, but you must also think of the long-term.  How will you get out of this situation so you’re not broke your entire life?

There are several important steps you should take.

Earn a Degree

Photo by Juan Ramos on Unsplash

If a degree would help you secure a better job, than look into taking college classes.  When you’re already broke, you may feel like you have you have no time or money to do so.  However, if you don’t take steps to improve your situation, you’ll remain broke for much of your life.

I had a friend, Becca, who was raising her niece and nephew.  Money was tight, but she prioritized her education.  She took one or two classes a semester, putting in much of her study time early in the morning or at night when the kids were asleep.  It took her many years to get her degree, but she did.  Now, she lives a comfortable, middle class life and has a professional job.

Learn about Finance

If you don’t already have a solid background on personal finance, now is the time to learn.  This doesn’t have to cost any money.  You can borrow books from the library, take free finance classes online, and read blogs.  Learn all you can about managing money.  I’m not just talking about ways to save money, but ways to build your emergency fund and invest so you don’t end up broke again once you get out of your current situation.

Final Thoughts

How to survive being broke is a challenge for many people.  However, the first step is a mental one.  Realize that you’re currently broke, but you won’t be broke for the rest of your life.  You can make both short-term and long-term changes to improve your life and vastly improve your financial situation.  Many, many other people have done so.  Learn about those people and take concrete action to improve your current situation.

MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in New York, where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: budget, Debt Reduction, Married Money Tagged With: beating broke, budget, education, tight budget

4 Side Hustles for Teachers

April 15, 2019 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

If you’re currently a teacher, you likely know that while this occupation can be rewarding, it doesn’t pay very well.  You may be looking to supplement your income in the evenings or the weekend.

If you’re a former teacher who is now staying home with your kids, you may be looking for a way to bring in money utilizing your teaching skills.  However, you’ll need flexibility so that you can do your work when your children are sleeping at night or napping.

Luckily, there are plenty of ways to earn a side gig with your skills as a teacher.

Private Tutor

Teacher Hustles
Make Money as a Teacher

One of my friends worked at Nielsen, became a high school math teacher, and then stayed home when she had children.  For the last 10 years, she has been a private math tutor.  She gets her clients from referrals from her former colleagues and through word of mouth thanks to satisfied customers.  She makes several hundred dollars a month and enjoys being able to still teach even though she is no longer working full-time.

VIPKID Tutor

If you have a bachelor’s degree, you can get apply for a job at VIPKID teaching children in China how to speak English.  Most of the available tutoring hours are very early in the morning or late in the evening when your kids are likely already in bed.  You can set your own schedule and decide how many hours you want to work each week.

Depending on your experience, VIPKID may pay up to $22 per hour.

Curriculum Developer

Many former teachers make a nice income developing curriculum and selling it on Teachers Pay Teachers.  Other teachers are always looking for quality curriculum material and homeschoolers also take advantage of the site.

Online Teacher for Gifted Students

A number of prestigious colleges such as Johns Hopkins, Duke, and Northwestern offer online classes for gifted children.  You can teach here, and the schedule offers flexibility as you can decide what semesters to teach and what classes to teach.  You’ll be able to challenge gifted students, and you’ll have students who will likely challenge you, too.

If you don’t want to work with gifted students, you can also look at the many online schools available for K-12 students.  You can teach from home, and you may have to have a live course or tutoring once a week.  My kids were enrolled in an online school this year, and every time they had a tutoring session or interacted with their teachers, the teachers always worked from home, which provides a great deal of flexibility.

If you’re a teacher looking for extra income, you can see that there are a variety of ways to do that, and this list isn’t exhaustive. Here’s another list of ways to make extra money that’s not focused on teachers, but could certainly apply to teachers.  If you’re a teacher who opted to stay home with kids, there are many ways you can work from home using your skills and keeping current so you’ll be able to reenter the teaching workforce should you decide to in the future.

If you’re a teacher or were a teacher, have you found ways to turn your skills into a side gig or part-time income stream?  If so, what do you do?

MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in New York, where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: Education Tagged With: education, extra income, income, income streams, money, side hustle, side income, teacher, teaching

Don’t Be A Fool, Focus On School

August 3, 2011 By MelissaB 19 Comments

The back to school season is upon us, and many newly graduated high school students will head off to college for the first time.  More than ever, college students feel financial pressure.  The cost of college tuition continues to rise, and a student is often forced to decide to go into student loan debt to pay for her education or to work many hours to try to pay for the tuition without going into debt.

As a former college teacher I have a few thoughts on the subject.  If a student is going to college full-time, I cannot stress enough that school should be the main focus.  If a student needs to work, he should work part-time, 10 to 20 hours a week.  Yes, there are plenty of college graduates who brag that they worked full-time and went to school full-time and did just fine.   Yet, what were their grades?

Graduated!

I routinely had students in my class who worked full-time and went to school full-time.  In this scenario, education almost always gets shortchanged.  A student cannot neglect their employment, or they will be fired.  Instead they neglect their school work and get low grades, often not even passing grades.  A good rule of thumb is that for every hour in a credit course, plan to study three hours outside the class for a liberal arts class and four hours for a science or math class.  That means a student taking a 3 credit hour rhetoric course should plan on spending 9 hours outside the classroom doing homework.  If the student is taking a 4 hour anatomy class, he should plan on spending 16 hours outside the classroom on homework.  A full load of classes can range anywhere from 12 to 18 credit hours.  Those hours represent the time spent in the classroom.  Even if all the classes are liberal arts classes, the student should still be putting in 36 to 54 hours on homework a week to obtain optimal grades.  So, be sure to take your degree options into consideration when deciding on a job. Because, unless the student doesn’t plan on sleeping, working a full-time job is too much.

There is nothing wrong with reversing the situation and working full-time to avoid taking on student loan debt.  However, the student should only commit to taking a maximum of 2 classes a semester to obtain optimal grades.

College students should accept that they can’t do it all.  Either go to school full-time and work part-time and accept that you will have to pay off debt when you graduate or work full-time and go to school part-time and accept that you will graduate debt free, but it will take longer.  If a student takes on too much and earns low or failing grades, they have ultimately just wasted their time AND money.

photo credit: ralph and jenny

MelissaB
MelissaB

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in New York, where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

www.momsplans.com/

Filed Under: Education, ShareMe, Student Loans, Uncategorized Tagged With: college, college loans, education, financial aid, Student Loans

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