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I Quit My Job: Where I Went Wrong

August 15, 2012 By Shane Ede 13 Comments

I tried, through my previous posts, to adequately cover the reasoning, and process, of quitting my job. One thing that I didn’t cover, however, was the mistakes I made along the way. I think that, partially, I couldn’t because I hadn’t had enough time to ruminate on them. I also think that I couldn’t because I didn’t want to expose my weaknesses. Now, I’ve had time to think about it, and I think I can easily identify the things that I would do differently should I have the opportunity to try again. Maybe they aren’t all mistakes (I don’t count some of them that way).

Quitting Your Job The Right Way

One of the biggest changes I would likely have made would have been to quit the right way. The decision I made, while necessary, was made quickly (over two days), and without much fore-planning. Part of the motivation was that I had wanted out of the job for quite some time. How much I wanted out wasn’t really clear until after I was out. In hindsight, I should have started making moves well before I did. Unfortunately, I was mired in the comfort of a position that I had held for over seven years. Lesson learned: comfort is nice, but freedom is nicer.

Have a Full Plan B

Because of the hastiness of my departure from my position, I didn’t have a full plan B. I had no idea where the money was coming from to even partially replace my income. What income I had wasn’t dependable. In a way, I was smart enough to at least get a part-time job. But, without a full plan B, I think it was likely doomed to fail.

Get After IT

This is probably the biggest mistake I made through the whole ordeal. I quit my job, without a plan B, and then didn’t get after it nearly as much as I could have. I wanted to focus entirely on my blogs and websites and grow them to at least a part-time income. I severely underestimated the time it would take to do so, and should have spread my roots a bit and taken on other small projects to fill in dead time, and especially, fill in dead income spots. Towards the end of this round of self-employment, I started to realize that I needed to pick up my game, but by then it was too little, too late.

Have an Exit Plan

Nobody likes to think that they are going to fail. Just like nobody likes to think that they are going to get into a car accident or die, but we still buy car insurance and life insurance anyways. While you can’t just go out and buy entrepreneurial failure insurance, you can have an exit plan so that you not only know when it’s time to move on to the next thing, but you also have a plan on how to get there. I had none of that. As a consequence, I probably waited several weeks too long to even begin looking for a new full-time job, and risked not getting something in time to fill in the income I needed when our savings was depleted. I got lucky. My first paycheck at my new position came only a few days after the last transfer from the savings account happened. Even so, we’re still struggling to keep up without that cushion that we had grown accustomed to.

I Would Do It All Over Again

Despite all those mistakes I made, I would still do it all over again. I know the mistakes I made, and am better able to prepare myself to not make them again. I’m not afraid of failing. At least not to such a degree that it prevents me from trying. It’s a little bit like riding a bike. You’re going to fall off. It’s going to hurt. But, you’re going to get back on the bike because you like riding your bike. I like riding the entrepreneurial bike!

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I Quit My Job

November 9, 2011 By Shane Ede 32 Comments

I did something a couple of weeks ago. I’m sure that, based on the title of this article, you can guess what that something is. In fact, today is my last day. Starting at 5, I’m a free agent!

Why I Quit my Job.

Over the last several months and weeks, several things had happened at work, and while each would have likely been bearable on their own, the whole was completely unbearable. I don’t want to get into any real details, as I prefer to take the high-road and just leave what’s done, done. Unreasonable demands on me, and and my time had made my work a true chore, and I wasn’t willing to deal with it anymore. And so, I attempted to make my argument as to why the demands were unreasonable, but those arguments fell on deaf ears, and I submitted my resignation and two weeks notice. And, boy, did it feel good.

What about that House?

If you’ve been reading the last few weeks of articles, you’ve noticed that I’ve been writing alot about the house we were planning on buying, and the process that we and other prospective home owners have to go through. As you can likely imagine, the loss of one of our incomes has made it impossible for us to be able to afford the new mortgage payment that the new house would have brought with it. As a result of that, we’ve since cancelled the purchase and will remain in our current house.

The upside of not buying the house, and having to pull our current house off of the market is that we’ve done quite a bit of work on it in the last month or so to make it more appealing to prospective buyers. A new deck, some new flooring in the hall, and paint touch ups, among other things have made the house look pretty nice. It still remains rather small for our growing family, but it’s in really good condition now, and we’ll just have to make do.

Plans for the future.

With my resignation, I got something that I hadn’t really expected. Some freedom. I declared my free agency, and I’ll be attempting to make the most of it. I’ll be spending a lot more time writing for Beating Broke, as well as my other online properties. I’ll be writing some guest posts for other personal finance sites, and am hoping to have another ebook ready for you all sometime around the end of the year. (If you’ve got topics you’d like to see an ebook on, please let me know in the comments!)

I’ll likely have to take on a part time job, but have resolved to make it part time so that I have the time to do the extra work on this and other sites. It’ll help supplement the income I make online until such time as the online income grows enough to support me doing it full time.

How can you help?

The biggest way that you can help me, right now, is to continue reading my articles, here. It’s why I write them. It’d be pretty boring if you didn’t stop in to read, leave comments, and add to the discussion. If you’ve got topics you’d love to see covered here, please let me know in the comments or by using the contact us link at the top of the site. I’ll do my best to cover them as quickly and as fully as I can. Finally, share the site with your friends! Let them know how much you enjoy the articles!

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My Wife Quit Her Job

August 27, 2009 By Shane Ede 4 Comments

Before you get all excited, this isn’t a story of financial bliss. Less than 3 months after our second child, a daughter, was born and amid all this turmoil in the economy, my wife quit her job. Why? Suffice to say that she was extremely unhappy at the position and didn’t feel that she could return to it after her maternity leave.

The decision came much easier for her than it did for me. I didn’t have to work there, so I didn’t have the same problems as she did. But, most of all, my trepidation came from the fact that my salary alone could not support us. We would need to find a new source of income, and quickly.

Decisions made, my wife sent her resignation letter to her employer. And then they sent back a bill. You see, my wife was on maternity leave which is covered under the Family Medical Leave Act. In that law, there is a section that states that if the employee does not return from the FMLA leave, the employer can reclaim any expenses such as health insurance that they incurred while the employee was on leave. It was not a small bill. If I recall (who am I kidding. I remember.) it was just over $1200.00. As you can imagine, we were both devastated. Not only were we jumping directly out of the pan and into the fire, but now they had turned up the flame. We could pay it out of savings, but it would put a very serious dent in it. And that was money that we were counting on to keep our bills paid until my wife started earning money again.

You’ll have to excuse me a bit, while I digress. I want to explain how we planned on getting my wife making money again. We have, for several years, been active sellers on eBay. Never anything on any grand scale. We’d hit a garage sale here, and an estate sale or auction there and see what kind of easter eggs we could find. Having had that already in gear, we decided that ramping it up would be the easiest (and fastest) way to get some income coming back in. So, we began the search for more product and more suppliers for the product. End digression. I think I’ll leave any other details of that operation to another post.

So, being the natural arguer that I am, I started doing a little bit of research on FMLA law. I’m no lawyer, so basically all I did was confuse myself further. My brother, on the other hand, is a lawyer. Well, he will be sometime around May of next year. But, he happens to be working at a law firm and has access to all the lawyers and their resources. So, I asked him to look into it a little. A few text messages back and forth. An email or two. And a letter later. The bill went away. Turns out, that by requiring my wife to take all of her remaining sick/vacation time as well as using her short term disability insurance (both of which were enough time to cover the entire 12 weeks), they managed to make it so that they couldn’t reclaim that money. Sucks for them. Turns out very well for us. Thank you brother. And thank you law firm that he works for, for the pro bono work on the letter.

After that was taken care of, we could really concentrate on ramping up the eBay selling. We spent several weeks working out and implementing a way to grow the business. As it turns out, it grew a little bit slower than we had anticipated. And it certainly wasn’t going to make enough money to cover our expenses. At least, not right away. It might in the future. I, being the one that constantly worries (read stresses) about our finances, was beginning to think that it was about time for my wife to start looking for a part time job, if not a full time one. Little did I know the hidden paths that God reveals to us.

I told you before that the company that my wife worked for before wasn’t the greatest place to work. Truth is, it started out as a really nice place to work. Somewhere in between, it went very downhill. My wife’s best friend got fired, my Wife got passed over for promotions that she had been promised. And overall, everyone was fed up with the place. So, another of their ex-coworkers, who is also a friend, approached them with an offer. They would start their own company, doing the exact same thing as their previous employer. They all three loved what they were doing, just not the company, so it made a lot of sense.

That was about three months ago. They have since formed a corporation, gotten all their paperwork and such in order and opened for business on the 1st of August. So far, things are going very well. They’ve had more business than they had anticipated and things seem to be growing well. We’re all hopeful that it will continue to blossom and grow. Maybe one day, I’ll get to be strictly self-employed.

Of course, some of you will remember that I told you earlier that this wasn’t a story of financial bliss. It may become one, but it isn’t yet. We are still struggling to make our financial ends meet and likely will until at least the end of the year. My wife gets paid for the time she works at the company and will likely get a little bit of a shareholder bonus at the end of the year as well. And hopefully, they’ll be able to add a few new products to their line by then as well. Until then, however, we’re learning how to flex our frugal muscles and save as much as possible so that we can pay our bills.