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Realized Benefits of Emergency Funds

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Here and on other PF blogs, you’ll hear us all talking about the need for a well stocked emergency fund.  And, unless you have one, you likely don’t know that we aren’t just saying that because we think we should.  They really do have the benefits that we claim they do.  These last couple of weeks, my wife and I realized those benefits.

Early on March 26th, my then pregnant wife told me that I should probably stay home from work as it was appearing very likely that we would be having a baby that day.  Less than two hours later, we were checking in to the hospital to do just that.  If you’ve been there, I don’t have to tell you that it was incredibly exciting.

The excitement waned as we waited for the labor to progress and then quickly disappeared altogether when the baby began having decelerations in it’s heart rate.  The doctor began making preparations and the birth was expedited.  Rather than wait for the labor to progress as it would normally, my wife was instructed to push with all she had to get that baby out.  Quickly afterwards, the baby (a girl!) was born, and just as quickly was taken to a warming table to be intubated and have her lungs and stomach suctioned and checked.

It turns out that sometime in the weeks leading up to her birth, she had *ahem* pooed in her amniotic sac.  To the medical world, it’s called Meconium.  And it’s pretty bad.  It affects the lungs in that it acts as a stopper for the little sacs that do the oxygen intake.  It also acts as an irritant to the lungs that can lead to infections.  It can be very serious, and can take days, or weeks, or months to completely clear out.

In our case, luckily or not, our little girl was able to kick it in a week.  Pretty average recovery time we’re told.  Now, she’s home and all is well.  There won’t be any lasting effects and we shouldn’t be able to tell the difference.

calculator stethoscopeHere’s where the benefits of an emergency fund come in.  For that week that our little girl was in the hospital, the last thing we wanted to think about was bills, work, or anything not related to the well-being of that precious baby.  We had friends watch our dogs, and my wife’s mother came up for a couple of days to watch our son.  And we spent as much time as we could watching our little girl fight the fight in an incubator.

We didn’t have time to balance our check book, or check our budget to make sure we were within bounds on something.  And now that it’s all over, I can honestly say that if we hadn’t had an emergency fund, it would have been much, much worse.

One of the touted benefits of an emergency fund is the peace of mind that it affords you.  When you know that you have that money to fall back on in an emergency, your mind is free to worry about the things that it should be.  In this case, it was our daughter.  Maybe it would be the car you just wrecked or the house that just burned down.  No matter what the emergency is, you know that you’ve got that extra cushion of money to help pay any bills or expenses that might come up.

I cannot tell you how wonderful it was to not have to worry about that during the week that she was in the hospital.  We certainly didn’t expect to have any problems, but we did.  You may not expect any problems, but they can happen.  If you’ve been putting off the funding of your own emergency fund, don’t wait any longer.  We’re glad we didn’t.  You never know when you’ll need it.

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Is Frugal Normal?

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Do you think that being a Frugaler is normal?  It obviously is a bit abnormal in the American society.  Although, with recent economic news, I think that it’s becoming more popular.  But normal?  I really don’t think so.

Sometimes, we look at the world through the personal finance bloggers perspective.  We see all the other personal finance bloggers we know and read and we get used to thinking that those people, along with ourselves, are the norm.  In essence, we are missing the forest for the trees.  Being a Frugaler is far from normal.

Every day, we Frugalers, task ourselves with finding new and exciting (well, maybe not exciting) ways to spend less money.  At the same time, we try and find ways to make more money.  We hope that the net effect is that we not only have money to pay the bills, but that we have some to save for a rainy day and, maybe, even retirement.  We daren’t say it, but some of us even think about “early” retirement.  And, if you peer no farther than our little realm of the blogosphere, you would think that the whole country does nothing but count pennies and do personal accounting.

I don’t think you would find too many PF bloggers who would argue against more people becoming Frugalers.  In fact, that is the purpose of a vast majority of the PF blogs that exist.  On any given day, you’ll find articles on “best way(s) to save on groceries”, “way(s) to cut utility bills”, and the list goes on.  We exist to talk, share, and teach this stuff.

Being a Frugaler may not be normal, but we’re working on it.

Are You a “Frugaler”?

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Ok, I’ll admit it, I made that word up. Well, at least as it would be a name instead of an action/habit.  It occurred to me while watching an episode of Wife Swap on Friday evening.  You’ve seen it, or a show like it, I’m sure.  They take the wives from two families and then the wives swap families.  The producers make sure that you get maximum drama by making sure that the families and wives are polar opposites.

In the episode that I watched, the one family lived in Florida and basically partied all the time.  The other family, however, was a different story.  They were “Sweepers”.  No, they don’t use a broom or even a swiffer.  A “sweeper” (article on sweeping) is someone who devotes a large block of time on a regular basis to entering sweepstakes.  And this family was nutzo about it.  They claimed to spend 8-10 hours a day on sweep related tasks.  From sending letters off to entering them online, they had made it a full time job.  They even went about collecting pop tops and candy bar wrappers for chances to win those contests.  Crazy, right?

Sure, but maybe not as crazy as you think.  In the end, the “sweepers” agreed that they maybe, might, kinda have a bit of an addiction.  And the cut back a little on the “sweeping”.  Nearly happy endings for all involved.  The husband still gets antsy when the mail truck doesn’t stop with new sweeps to enter.

This all led me to think about things that can become just as much of an addiction.  Actions for making a quick buck or getting something for much less than normal.  That’s what “sweeping” is.  It’s the action of entering contests and sweeps in an effort to win things that you couldn’t normally buy.  Something for nothing, or little to nothing after you figure in stamps.  We won’t talk about the time spent.

You know what else that sounds like though?  Frugality.  Being “frugal” is the action of finding the best/easiest ways to save oneself some money.  To get something for much less than normal.  It’s the action of using coupons and sales and saving methods in an effort to pay less than retail for an item or service.  Something for nothing, or little to nothing is the goal.

Does that sound familiar to you?  Do you spend time on a regular basis surfing through the deal forums in search of a great deal on something you need?  Do you clip every coupon you get in case you need a Belgian Waffle Maker someday before the coupon expires?  Or, do you clip every coupon you get for the purpose of trading them with others for coupons you need?  Or, maybe you refinanced your $300 loan for that 0.25% rate drop to save the $1 in interest. (that’s not a scientific calculation, please don’t try and correct it. It’s for dramatic effect.)  You just might be (gasp!) a “Frugaler”.

Them “Sweepers” don’t sound as crazy now, do they?