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More Reasons to Beat That Debt

January 27, 2020 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

If you’re in debt, you’re not alone. A few generations ago, most Americans did not carry debt, and if they did, they only had mortgage debt. Carrying debt was looked down up and considered shameful. But how things have changed now. Many 18-year olds immediately go into student loan debt for college, and then for credit card and automobile loan debt and to top it all off, mortgage loan debt.

Once you’re in debt, you can feel like you’re in so deep, there’s no way out. But don’t give up! There are many more reasons to beat that debt than to not.

More Reasons to Beat That Debt

When you’re deep in debt, you may feel there’s no point in going on a strict budget and putting extra money on your debt. After all, you work hard to scrimp and put extra money on the debt, but you barely see a difference in the balances. Sure, progress is slow in the beginning, but there are so many benefits of working hard to pay off your debt.

Today’s Money Is Yours for Today

One of the most frustrating things about being in debt is that you pay for yesterday with today’s money. Let’s say you earn $3,000 a month, and $1,000 of that money must go to payments for your debt. That is 1/3 of your income that must go for past expenses that you went into debt for. Imagine if all the debt was paid off and you had that $1,000 to use today. What would you do with an extra $1,000 every month?

Money to Save for Long Term Goals

Maybe part of that $1,000 can be saved for long-term goals like a fabulous vacation you can pay cash for, or to grow your retirement nest egg, or to save in your children’s college fun. When you don’t have to pay debt payments, you have more money to save for, and advance, your future.

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Security

Probably the best reward for working hard to pay down debt is that you have financial security. If your car is paid off, you don’t need to worry that it will be repossessed if you lose your job. That car is yours no matter what.

Money for Charitable Goals

If giving to charity is important to you, you can give more freely when your money isn’t tied up in expensive debt repayment. You can give to your church, or an organization that you support, or a family in need. You have the means and the ability to give generously when there is no debt burdening you.

Financial Freedom

When you are in debt, you feel burdened, even if you don’t realize that you feel that way. There is something about being out of debt, not being beholden to anyone, that makes you feel free and empowered. You don’t realize how much having debt was subconsciously weighing you down until the debt is gone. I’ve experienced this myself and also heard many people share that this is what they felt, too.

Final Thoughts

If you’re in debt, remember, getting out of debt, especially significant debt, is a marathon, not a sprint. However, you should get out of debt as fast as you are able to benefit from these many more reasons to beat that debt. You’ll be glad you break the chains when you get out of debt.

Find Your Frugal Tribe and Save Even More Money

January 23, 2020 By MelissaB 1 Comment

Who is your tribe? With whom do you surround yourself? Too often, our friends seem to be those we accidentally meet. Someone at the gym we clicked with or a co-worker we have a connection with. These friendships are usually made because we have at least one thing in common, something we both love that connects us.

If you’re of a money mind, perhaps being frugal and avoiding debt, you may find that most of your friends don’t share this trait with you. In real life, finding friends who share your passion for saving and pinching pennies can be very difficult.

Luckily, you can look online and find your frugal tribe and save even more money.

Find Your Frugal Tribe and Save Even More Money

Thanks to technology, there are many ways to find a frugal tribe.

YouTube Tribes

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My husband and I are looking to save money, especially on groceries, because we’ve been facing hundreds of dollars in medical expenses each month. The amount we spend on groceries is a place where we can reduce our expenses.

However, asking friends in real life what they spend on groceries and how they save money is a bit awkward, especially because most of my friends don’t seem to be money minded.

Enter YouTube. I discovered one woman on YouTube who feeds her family of 5 for $30 to $35 a week!! Insane, isn’t it? I know I’ll never get my grocery bill that low, but it is encouraging to know that there is definitely room to cut the grocery budget.

Facebook Tribes

The same vlogger I mentioned above also runs a Facebook group, 11,000+ members strong, solely devoted to frugal meals and groceries. I joined that group, and I’m learning a lot.

But you can find your frugal tribe in a range of topics. I belong to several Facebook groups–one on saving on groceries, one on frugal living in general, and one about frugal ways to send your kids to college.

Change Your Tribe, Change Your Habits

Here’s the thing. Whether you realize it or not, the people you surround yourself with, even if they are vastly different than you, affect your thoughts. If you’re around spendthrifts, you unconsciously become a little looser with your money because that’s what you see others doing. You may still be the most frugal person among your friends, but you’re likely less frugal than you used to be because of the influence of your peers.

Of course, the reverse is also true. Since watching YouTube videos and joining the Facebook group, I have slashed my grocery spending by 25% every month. Each day I learn new strategies for saving.

True, I don’t emulate a lot of what I learn. One vlogger on YouTube made two big meals at the beginning of the week and then fed her family the leftovers for the next four days. That definitely wouldn’t fly in my house, but it was a lesson in how to morph leftovers into other meals.

How to Find Your Tribe

If you can find a tribe in real life, that’s the best. If you have a frugal friend, perhaps she can help you connect with more frugal people.

However, if you don’t, the Internet is a great tool. The best starting place is YouTube and blogs. Facebook is a close second. Once you find one good frugal person, you can likely find more she is connected with. If you find someone via social media or YouTube, don’t be afraid to reach out electronically and say “hi.” Who knows, you may become friends in real life.

How do you find like-minded frugal friends?

Do Your Financial Splurges Embarrass You?

January 16, 2020 By MelissaB Leave a Comment

Do your financial splurges embarrass you? If they do, you may have noticed that some indulgences are more socially acceptable than others. Many people don’t see anything negative about someone buying a lot of clothes on clearance even though her closet is already full and she doesn’t need anything. Get a steal on clothes that you don’t even need, and you’ll likely be praised. In fact, others may try to emulate your deal seeking prowess. Yet, spend your money on something that benefits you but society sees as extravagant, and you may be shamed.

Bargain Shoppers or Money Wasters?

I have a relative who is very good at frugal grocery shopping. However, she is a little too good at it. She buys more “deals” than she needs, so much so that she had her husband build shelves in their basement for her to store the deals that don’t fit in their pantry and kitchen. Because she goes shopping for groceries every week, continually finds deals, and only has three members in her family, she’ll never get through all of the food deals she has bought before they expire. Yet, friends always are impressed by her grocery shopping skills.

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In our society, we see spending as little as possible per item as admirable even if we’re spending a lot over time for things we don’t need. In fact, in my relative’s case, these items may never be used and just tossed at a later date.

Splurges That Fit Your Life and Budget

However, if you hire a housekeeper because you have a busy schedule and a messy house stresses you out, people may judge you and argue that you’re spending your money frivolously. Yet, isn’t it just as frivolous to buy clothes and groceries that you don’t need?

The bottom line is that we all get to choose what to do with our money. If you’re financially responsible, you can choose to spend your money in ways that others may find frivolous.

Perhaps you hire a house cleaning service. Maybe you buy that sports car you’ve wanted since you were a teenager. Maybe you take the trip to Europe that you’ve always dreamed of.

Don’t feel the need to conform to society’s expectations and judgments.

If you and your spouse work full-time outside the home, and you’d benefit from more hours on the weekends spending time with your kids rather than cleaning the house, go ahead, spend your discretionary money on hiring a house cleaner.

If you feel that a traveling sports team will give your child an advantage when it comes to high school and college as well as personally and physically, go ahead and pay for the team and the travel if you need to travel with your child.

The bottom line is that you make the best decisions for you and your family. Maybe you have a minimalist wardrobe and cook at home every night so you can afford to splurge in other areas of your life. That’s okay.

You can spend your extra money any way you see fit. Society has a rigid standard of what compromises smart use of your money. However, only you and your spouse can determine what compromises smart use of your own money considering your lifestyle and finances.

What is one splurge that you have that you feel society frowns upon? How did you overcome societal judgement?