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Ask for the Special

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I’m not a very outgoing person.  I have a hard time going up to people I’ve never met.  I have a hard time even talking to people I’ve never met.  So, I have a very hard time following the old advice that you have to ask for the real discount.  Luckily, not everything has to be done in person, so I can send emails for some things.  Which is exactly how I proved that old adage true.

For Christmas, instead of receiving gifts from all of our relatives, we asked them to put in the money that they would normally have spent to a mini-vacation fund for us.  We all have set spending limits for our Christmas presents, so it was pretty easy for them to do that.  Then, we took a nice little weekend trip the day after Thanksgiving.

We wanted someplace nice that would be within the budget, but would still count as a vacation.  In other words, Super 8 just wasn’t going to cut it.  We had originally settled on one place, but, being the curious fella that I am, I kept looking for a better deal.  And, as luck would have it I found one.  In fact, for what it would have cost us for one night at the original place, we stayed for two at the next place.  And, if you want my honest opinion, I think the place I found was a lot nicer.  How did we get such a deal?  I asked for it.

Simple really.  I emailed the manager who was listed on the website.  He forwarded my email on to the guy in charge of reservations.  In my email, I simply told him what days we were planning on staying, and asked if there were any specials that would be active for that weekend.  At this point, he could have easily just said no.  But, he didn’t.  And he earned a customer.

IMG_2154The place was very nice. (Here’s a link and a picture of the living room area if you’re curious: Chase on the Lake, I highly recommend it.) They called the room we stayed in a “condotel”.  Basically, it was a two bedroom, two bathroom, suite with a full kitchen and living room.  Everything was way above the typical standards that we have for a hotel room.  Overall, it was incredible.  We spent the whole weekend relaxing (kid-free, thanks to Grandma) and came home refreshed.

We would have gone on the trip in any case.  But, because I asked for the special, it became a lot cheaper than we had planned on it being.  And, if we plan on doing it again (we will), I think we’ve found our place.  Next time you’re making plans for a trip, or just trying to buy something special, make sure you at least ask for a special.  You might just surprise yourself and get one!

Frugal Christmas Tips

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Close Up of Christmas TreeI don’t want to panic you or anything, but Christmas is just around the corner.  Inf act, it’s only a hair more than 10 days away.  Some of you are way ahead of the curve and have had your presents bought and wrapped for months.  Others, like myself, are still finishing up your shopping.  For me, it’s a procrastination problem.  Others, it’s a funding issue, and they just have to wait until they have the money to spend on all those presents.

If you ask me, the presents are the worst part of the season.  I enjoy the holidays, but I truly despise the commercialization of them.  I’d rather not do any of the presents schtick and merely enjoy the time off work spend with family and friends.  Never mind that it would save us all from having to endure the marketing blitz that is the month of December, or the horror stories of those who risk life
and limb to get that super cool toy at 3 a.m., only to have their children play with it for five minutes and then go off to build a fort out of the box.

But, unfortunately for most, that part of the holiday has become so ingrained into the holiday that it is impossible to remove.  For those, I offer a few tips to help lessen the burden.

  • Give Homemade Gifts.  Maybe you are an excellent baker, or a scrapbooker extraordinaire, or maybe you’re handy with a tool.  Not only will making your own thoughtful homemade gifts be cheaper, but they also show that you put more thought into the gift than just perusing the circular and finding the latest thing.
  • Go in on gifts.  Many people, including myself, don’t have a very long list of smaller priced items that they want or need.  But, most have at least a thing or two that is higher priced that they either want or need.  Go in with a group of relatives or friends and buy that one big item.  You’ll get away with paying a lesser amount, while the person will receive a bigger gift that they want rather than a bunch of smaller gifts that they don’t really want.
  • Go dutch.  Instead of hosting a big meal and cooking it all yourself, make it a potluck.  Not only will you get the best that your friends and relatives have to offer as far as holiday food goes, but it will significantly reduce the amount you’ll spend on groceries.
  • Fill the holidays with activities.  It sounds silly, but the more down time you have to ponder the lack of presents, the worse everybody feels.  If everybody knows they’ll only have a little bit of free time before going off to play board games, they won’t notice a few less presents.

Whether you take advantage of ways to save money this holiday season or not, do try and keep in mind that the season is about spending time with those that you care about.  Try to overcome any of the usual holiday squabbles and enjoy their company, and enjoy the season!

photo credit: Tatiana12

Is Saving Money a Waste of Money

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Save! Be Frugal! A penny saved is a penny earned. There’s a plethora of maxims meant to encourage us all to save our money for a rainy day. To hoard our excess funds so that we can spend them at a later date and enjoy their usage. But, is saving our money a waste of our money?

The most obvious way that saving money could be a waste of money is in lost opportunity cost.  If your money is tied up in some CD or savings account that you don’t have ready access to, what opportunity are you going to miss out on that could make you even more money.  If you can’t take advantage of an opportunity to make money, your savings is wasting those potential profits.

But, that isn’t the real issue.  Potential profits don’t necessarily mean lost profits.  Maybe that opportunity doesn’t perform as expected and you earn less than you would have in the CD or savings accounts?  No, I don’t think that theory holds up.  Sure, you might miss out on a potential profit boon, but I wouldn’t encourage not saving for that purpose.  In fact, having a readily accessible savings could make it easier to take advantage of an opportunity like that.

But, let’s think for a moment about what we do to save money.  The easiest way to do that is to just have it taken directly from your paycheck and into a 401(k) or to set up an automatic transfer from your paycheck to a savings account.  Easy.  A little bit of set up involved, but very little effort thereafter.  That’s hardly a waste of money!  But, let’s look at the opposite side of the spectrum.  You’re pinching your pennies, saving as much as you possibly can and then some.  You don’t want to miss out on an opportunity, or you want to pay your debt off super fast!  You go so far as to start collecting pop cans.  (assuming you live in a state that has a deposit.)  You walk down the street and throw the cans you find into a bag.  Maybe you even hit the parks and poke through the trash cans there.  Every week, you spend several hours looking for cans.

How much is your time worth?  If you’re spending several hours a week for a few bucks worth of cans, are you making a good use of your time?  Isn’t your effort to save a few bucks a waste of potential money doing something else?  Heck, you could deliver pizzas for a few hours a week and make much more than that.  Not to mention the other ways to make extra money.  You can make money selling ebooks, or working some overtime, or consulting, or just about any second job, or make money on twitter, or even *ahem* blogging.  Sure, the cans are an extreme example.  But, one used to put a spotlight on my point.  What saving practices are you employing that are a waste of money?  Which of them are worth your time, effort, and resources?  And which aren’t?

If we are going to attempt to create a super financial situation, we have to make our saving machine as efficient as possible. It doesn’t hurt to question your tactics.  Find the ones that are causing you to waste your money and find a better use of your time.  Not only will it make your money saving efforts more efficient, but I think it will free up some time to do things that you want to do.  Like spend time with your kids, or walk through the park and not look for cans!