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Frugal Christmas Tips

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Close Up of Christmas TreeI don’t want to panic you or anything, but Christmas is just around the corner.  Inf act, it’s only a hair more than 10 days away.  Some of you are way ahead of the curve and have had your presents bought and wrapped for months.  Others, like myself, are still finishing up your shopping.  For me, it’s a procrastination problem.  Others, it’s a funding issue, and they just have to wait until they have the money to spend on all those presents.

If you ask me, the presents are the worst part of the season.  I enjoy the holidays, but I truly despise the commercialization of them.  I’d rather not do any of the presents schtick and merely enjoy the time off work spend with family and friends.  Never mind that it would save us all from having to endure the marketing blitz that is the month of December, or the horror stories of those who risk life
and limb to get that super cool toy at 3 a.m., only to have their children play with it for five minutes and then go off to build a fort out of the box.

But, unfortunately for most, that part of the holiday has become so ingrained into the holiday that it is impossible to remove.  For those, I offer a few tips to help lessen the burden.

  • Give Homemade Gifts.  Maybe you are an excellent baker, or a scrapbooker extraordinaire, or maybe you’re handy with a tool.  Not only will making your own thoughtful homemade gifts be cheaper, but they also show that you put more thought into the gift than just perusing the circular and finding the latest thing.
  • Go in on gifts.  Many people, including myself, don’t have a very long list of smaller priced items that they want or need.  But, most have at least a thing or two that is higher priced that they either want or need.  Go in with a group of relatives or friends and buy that one big item.  You’ll get away with paying a lesser amount, while the person will receive a bigger gift that they want rather than a bunch of smaller gifts that they don’t really want.
  • Go dutch.  Instead of hosting a big meal and cooking it all yourself, make it a potluck.  Not only will you get the best that your friends and relatives have to offer as far as holiday food goes, but it will significantly reduce the amount you’ll spend on groceries.
  • Fill the holidays with activities.  It sounds silly, but the more down time you have to ponder the lack of presents, the worse everybody feels.  If everybody knows they’ll only have a little bit of free time before going off to play board games, they won’t notice a few less presents.

Whether you take advantage of ways to save money this holiday season or not, do try and keep in mind that the season is about spending time with those that you care about.  Try to overcome any of the usual holiday squabbles and enjoy their company, and enjoy the season!

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Is Personal Finance Really Important?

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In case you haven’t noticed, this site is all about personal finance.  Well, mostly.  We certainly talk a lot about personal finance.  But, is personal finance really all that important?

How much time do you devote to your personal finances?  To your budget? To coupon clipping?  In the end, does any of it make a difference?  Or are we merely just going through the motions because of some larger issue?  Ever since my Junior year in high school when my english class went through a whole section on propaganda, I’ve (rightly so) questioned anything and everything.  We don’t deal with propaganda on the level of that they did in war times, but we still deal with it on a regular basis.  And at it’s root is the necessity by those companies who are spreading the propaganda to further the consumerism society that we’ve become.

Over the last few months, I’ve been reading a lot of books on the subject of breaking free of what you are, and becoming what you should be.  Books like “No More Mondays” and especially “Early Retirement Extreme” have brought me to take an even closer look at the consumerist lives that we live.  Jacob (the author of Early Retirement Extreme) lives on somewhere around $10,000 a year.  A Year!  Could you even make it 3 months on that?  I know that I would have an incredibly tough time even trying to come close to living on 10k a year.  It would take some very radical changes for me, but I might try working towards that by reducing my consumerist habits.

And, when you reduce your consumerist habits, a funny thing will likely happen.  Your expenses will go down.  And you’ll be able to “live” on less and less.  And another thing that will happen, is that personal finance will become less important.  We worry about the most frugal way to do this or that, or the proper way to save for retirement or buy a house or pay off debt, or even the best way to negotiate a better deal on your next car when what we really should be worrying about is why we are living the lives we are.  How many of you are working jobs you don’t want to because you have all this debt from your house and your car or from all the fun “stuff” you bought on credit?  I know my hand is raised.  How LIBERATING would it be to walk out of your office today and not look back.  And not have to worry that someone was going to come and take your house away.

Do me a favor.  Take 15 minutes and watch this movie that Adam included in his post on focusing on what truly matters.

*direct link to youtube video if my embed doesn’t work for some reason: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Cakm2nIQWo

Now, tell me.  Could you stop and not keep going if you had to?  Or are you so tied to your “career” and “job” that you have to “keep going”? Take the steps today to free yourself of the consumerist lifestyles that we live.  Free yourself from the eternal “going” that we experience every day.  You likely won’t accomplish it in a day, or even a month or year, but if you take a little step every day, you can get there.  I’m taking that journey, step by step, and it’s difficult.  It’s difficult to give up some things that we don’t really think about.  But, if we want to be able to stop whenever we want to, we need to be able to do that.

Obligations of the Buyer

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With all the news lately about people “walking away” from their mortgages, increasing bankruptcies, and debt consolidation/repayment schemes, I got to thinking about what the obligations of the buyer are.  And, also, the ways that we as a society have made it easy to sidestep those obligations.

Obligations

What are our obligations when we buy something?  Does buying a pack of gum carry different obligations than buying a house?  Naturally, we have obligations to ourselves as to the upkeep and use of that which we buy.  If I buy a house, I have an obligation to myself to do what I can to make that house last as long as possible and remain structurally sound.  If I buy a pack of gum, it’s a lesser commitment, but that obligation still exists as an obligation to not let my purchase go to waste and either chew the gum or give it to someone to chew.

What obligations to we have to the seller when we buy something?  There are two ways to look at this.  The first scenario involves paying cash for something.  If the full purchase price that was negotiated is satisfied, I don’t believe you have any obligation to the seller.  However, if the purchase involves debt of some sort, there are obligations that arise.  If you purchase with a credit card, there is an obligation to pay that debt to the credit card company.  The same is true for a mortgage, a car, and even a pack of gum.  Not only do you have an obligation to pay the debt, but you also have another obligation to yourself to learn what that debt is going to cost you.  This last obligation is the one that was most ignored during the fiasco that we like to call a housing bubble.  Many ignored the facts of what their new houses were going to cost and bought them anyways.

Sidesteps

In the pursuit of a consumerist society, these obligations can sometimes get in the way.  If I ignored the obligation to know the cost of debt and bought a house anyways, I likely entered into an agreement to pay a mortgage company a set amount each month.  Recently, it’s become popularized to demonize the banks that lent the money to people as the sole problem and, as a result, it’s become no big deal to merely “walk away” (default, or stop paying) on a mortgage.  The reasoning follows that it’s better to default on the mortgage than remain paying on a house that is worth less than what the purchase price was, or that has had payments adjusted higher.

Bankruptcy OK!In the same way, the obligation to pay credit card bills, auto loans, and most other consumer debt has been sidestepped.  It’s no longer a social stigma to declare bankruptcy.  Many, knowing they are about to file for bankruptcy, will go out and max out their credit lines in anticipation of the bankruptcy cleaning the slate.

As these sidesteps become more and more common, the social stigma will decrease even further.  If everybody is doing it, it’s hard to demonize something.  You might demonize your friend.  Or relative.

Of course, this isn’t to say that defaulting on a mortgage should never happen.  Or that bankruptcy should never be declared.  It happens.  It’s the rampant social acceptance of these situations that is troubling.  What happens when it becomes commonplace for mortgage borrowers to default?  The loans become more expensive.  The banks have to cover their costs to repossess the house, the staff to service the loan, and associated costs with trying to resell the house.  Where is that money going to come from?  They aren’t going to just pay it out of the kindness of their hearts.  They’ll pass it on to the customer.  Suddenly, mortgages will become even more front loaded with fees and interest.  When bankruptcies become more commonplace, credit availability is going to decrease.  We’ve already seen that recently.  People who could easily get a credit card before will be denied.

All of this is all the more reason to avoid debt whenever possible.  If society isn’t going to do it, hold yourself to your obligations as a buyer.  Obligate yourself to paying off your debt.  Then, obligate yourself to paying in cash from then on.

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